She really needs to fuck off. There is no hardship there, only her own bloody doing and making dramas out of nothing! I've spent the weekend with 2 of my children in hospital, would bloody love to decompress with a book, my head definitely needs it as close to exploding but I won't, cos us 'normal' folk get on with normal everydaying every day, combined with work and feeding our kids non beige food and tidying the house. I'm a woman on the edge here and her moaning might tip me over it.
And the comments above about friendships are true, she needs them more than they need her!