I do agree regarding the being babied and them both needing to have more drive to get out of the family home etc but it's so hard to save for a deposit so I can understand why some people may find themselves back at their parents. I'm mid 30s and on a just over min wage job, not my fault at all as I decided to spend savings on my education and not on a deposit. I probably won't own any property until I'm in my 40s (if I do at all).
I don't want this to turn into a life story and I'm not defending their decisions but at least she's working. Yes it may be a min wage type of job but it's a job at the end of the day. I've had people look down at me for having a min wage role and it's upsetting, especially as I work my ass off physically every day.
This isn't directed at anyone in particular by the way and I do agree that they need more drive to get their own places, they do seem to enjoy being at home a little too much.
On a semi related note, it does make me laugh she wants to keep her job role private yet will reveal snippets about it. I don't understand that at all.