I totally agree, I think its so unnescary to make personal information like that public.
I genuinely think one of the reasons she had a baby was because she wanted to prove her mom wrong and show how easy it was and finally be able to say her mom was such a bad mom because she’s doing such a great job, Id say her mom is one of the only voices of reason in her life and when she tells her a hard truth that she doesn’t want to hear she makes these insanely personal tiktoks slatting her mom and “cuts her off”
I wouldn’t go as far as saying her mother is a voice of reason. Keelin is far too comfortable online and doesn’t have boundaries but that doesn’t mean she’s lying about her mam. When she was moving from London and trying to find someone to take her cat in, she posted screenshots of her mother literally threatening to kill the cat.
I highly doubt her mam would literally kill the cat but she's (the mam) allowed to not want to mind the cat for keelin. its not the mams responsibility, its keelins. She's 24/25 now, she can't expect her parents to be at her feet forever. Plus she can't expect a person (her mam) who doesn't even like cats to mind it for however long. Keelin fully acts like everyone should do everything for her. She's so entitled n she's become soooo much worse since getting pregnant n having the baby. she expects everything to be done for her. its gross.
nah she had the baby because her influencer career was failing and i think she pissed off her housemates getting missy moving jason in etc so she knew she'd have to find a new place soon, it was getting to the point where she was going to actually have to get a job so she decided to just get pregnant and move back home instead
I was really shocked when said she said that J would come home in the evening, there would be no food in the house and he would then ask her "what are we going to have for dinner?"
. Or when she said they split the bills equitably, ie. She pays for more than him.I don’t think this is a K vs J thing, some would say maybe she should have dinner made because she’s been home all day but that’s up for debate… what it shows is they clearly don’t communicate, J feels she should be cooking and K feels he should be cooking but neither talk about it. Resentment is building. The learning to drive in 6 months thing is also a bizarre comment.I was really shocked when said she said that J would come home in the evening, there would be no food in the house and he would then ask her "what are we going to have for dinner?"
Seems like he's not taking much or any responsibility, makes sense now why the sister is always there helping. I'd say K is genuinely under a lot of pressure.
I have no doubt she's under pressure but jesus did they not discuss these things before moving in together let alone before deciding to have a child. How shall we split chores, what standard of cleanliness do you like, do you expect us/you/me to cook from scratch or are you OK with oven pizzas and frozen veg, how do you react to pressure - do you withdraw, do you get angry? Do you think i should handle all night feeds/changes if you are working for a wage? How much money do you think is reasonable to save every month, do you have any savings so far? what was your parents attitude to money and how did that define your attitude? How will you react if we can't pay the bills one month, what are our options? how do you define a successful life, do you want to move out of the city one day, what kind of person do you want our child to grow up to be and how do you think your/our parenting will guide them there? Why do you want a child? What are your views on health, do you take care of your health and how? How do you recharge - do you need alone time, how much, do i need to be out of the apartment? How much sleep do you need a night to function, how do you react if you don't get that?I was really shocked when said she said that J would come home in the evening, there would be no food in the house and he would then ask her "what are we going to have for dinner?"
Seems like he's not taking much or any responsibility, makes sense now why the sister is always there helping. I'd say K is genuinely under a lot of pressure.
Might save this for my next relationship!
good questions!Honestly I kinda disagree with you. The world really isn’t baby- or new mother-friendly (or at least Dublin City isn’t). Think about how it’s only recently become more acceptable to breastfeed in public etc. I mean how many newborn babies do you actually see out and about? You are expected to an extent to just stay at home all day with the baby as a new mum.
I don’t think Keelin wants J to be a stay at home dad - how can she make content full time when 90% of her content rn is moaning, talking about how hard things are with the baby and doing all the housework - what would she do if she had nothing to give out about? She would actually have to put in effort to make engaging content! I think she loves to be a martyr and go without showers (for no reason), make out like she can’t put the baby down for a second, and garner praise and even sympathy for the situation she chooses to put herself in.
Fair enough, I live in the UK now and it’s pretty common to see new mums with their newborns out and about. In the video, it sounded like she wants every person she meets to stop and be in awe of her baby - sadly childbirth is the most natural thing in the world and she’s not the first one to do it!
yeah i actually think it is a little different in the UK, but i can imagine it being a lot worse in Dublin
