I simply do not understand why others can't see what we do
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. Where does ANY of this 'great mum' proof come from? This praise is based on what?
She has lost primary custody of 4 of her 5 children FACT. Harvey has reached a critical weight whilst in her care FACT. The kids travel unrestrained in vehicles whilst in her care FACT. She posts unsuitable images of her daughter's on the internet for all sorts of pervs FACT. Harvey is not able to give his consent to any photos/information she puts out FACT. She introduces her children to new men over & over again FACT. She has destroyed all of Harvey's relationships with father figures, including his actual father FACT. She exploits her children for her own gain over & over FACT. She was banned from her youngest children's school for her behaviour FACT. She has driven her children in a vehicle whilst disqualified FACT. She does not take proper care of Harvey, many examples easily found FACT. I could go on & on. Please can someone, anyone, help me understand how she is a 'great mum'
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I'm so upset about Harvey's rapidly deteriorating situation. It's beyond desperate. If she thinks what she shows us is okay, what the hell goes on that we don't see? As someone trained in Makaton safeguarding, I see red flags all over. He really needs someone to give him a voice & spend time with him. He needs a chance to speak. He needs a chance to be heard. Someone could easily work with her to improve his life. Sadly I'm sure it's been tried over the years but she's ignored everything. He is very clearly suffering because of her & nothing is happening. It's heartbreaking