Same old same old but thought people here may be interested.
EXCLUSIVE: Big Brother winner Alex Reid's past life is a far cry from his reality nowadays, as he struggled to figure out "what was real and what was fake" while with his famous ex
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Love bombing. Happened to me. A whirlwind of excitement good time, fun places to go, being cooked for, lavished with gifts.
Then they switch it all off and you become the person who cooks for them, gives them money that’s never returned, paying for their petrol,cigarettes, because their pay check didn’t clear. I paid for four last minute, house moves in two years because they were so troubled in the area they lived in, or the neighbours hated them. I found out later they owed over £8000 in unpaid rent. The friendly landlords I met previously, obviously love bombed by this person too, now furious and feeling like cunts. I was a friend of this person, or her ‘rock’. I’m not kidding the scrapes I talked her out of. She was completely out of control. Married men, a violent boyfriend who threatened my family because he didn’t want his parents to find out he’d got her pregnant. Years of it.
I am three years free from this person. And they had the temerity to show up on my doorstep with a big smile on their face last Xmas. I’m so burned by her that when a neighbour invited me round for coffee I said no, because I can’t trust my own judgement now to spot a narcissist.