I suspect that Kipper is currently in the grip of narcissitic rage - I can tell you from experience that that is far beyond normal anger, they have little if any control during it ...
The last couple of weeks with my abusive ex I witnessed the worst narc meltdown I’ve ever seen. I’d already decided I was leaving as I’ve mentioned here before, I decided that about six weeks before I left. About two weeks before I left for good (and I only went back this time because police wouldn’t listen or believe me and threatened me with arrest if I didn’t go home, it was the first weekend of lockdown).
Id woken up to witness something with his child. A form of abuse. But done in such a way that questioning, even by professionals, wouldn’t have resulted in a disclosure. You really had to be involved long term, for the niggles and questions over the child’s strange behaviour. What I saw I knew what I’d seen.
He must’ve known that I couldn’t ignore this like I did when he abused me. Panic set in. I have never seen anything like it. I can’t remember if I said I was leaving or he threw me out. But I knew it was about to go nuclear when he did something he’d never done - he rang my friend. Normally he avoided them at all costs and just isolated me.
. He started telling my friend I was nuts etc. my friend could hear me screaming and going nuts in the background. He obviously thought how I was acting would make her believe what he was saying. I have mental health issues. But my friend has known me all her life. She didn’t miss a beat and said “What have you done to make T behave like that? She isn’t doing that for no reason”. He hung the phone up. He was stuttering. Then he rang her back and accused me of being some sort of pedophile. He said there was evidence on my laptop as I had been looking at teenage pornography (I hadn’t, and it was him who insisted on porn, the page he was referring to was pornhubs front page with “teen” in the title of some of the videos, which he used my laptop).
Then he hung up again and sent her a video (which the police weren’t interested in and she still has incase they ever are) completely contradicting himself and making it absolutely undeniable that I was telling the truth. Then rang her again. She didn’t miss a beat again and said “How can that be possible when you just told me you weren’t even awake?” He said something else contradictory and again she said “But how would you know if you were asleep? You literally just told me you were “flat out asleep”.
The result was like something I’ve only ever seen in drug addicts when they get given that injection to bring them out of OD, or are in the throes of withdrawal. He started sweating, shaking, he couldn’t string a sentence together it was just jumbled words. He had absolutely no control over his own body.
My point with this story, is to illustrate that KP is doing exactly the same. Accusing Kieran and Michelle of exactly what she is. SHE is the cheating addict. SHE is the one who had damaged those children. SHE is the liar. SHE is the one where there is evidence of her abuse. SHE will sink as low as she thinks she needs to despite how well we know her behaviour history, and habits.