Kat Farmer DMBL40 #8 Please get help!

[pinkrobot]

I think Kat is prone to dramatic statements and comfortable with brutally culling unwanted things (such as clothes, friendships, husbands etc). So I reckon she has just dumped most of her old wardrobe to break from the past.

Also space reasons as mentioned above, and most of it (eg. her endless maxi dresses and all her bandwagon buys) is no longer on trend. She has probably been raking in £££s (which is helpful to her at the moment) selling off all the designer clobber and #kindlygifted hideous Ridley stuff through specialist second-hand stores. Not sure Vinted is where she's at!

The irony is she has trumpeted herself as a stylist for 10 years but all along was really just a very rich, thin woman who was able to constantly shop.

 

[Clytemnestra]

Her outfits are achingly outdated, she is dressing like a middle aged woman from Fiday Night Dinner.

That's so funny - I was rewatching that last week and thought that she was turning into Auntie Val, right down to the necklaces and hair:

 

[Vacuous]

Every post essentially involves alcohol. She seems to be absent from This Morning after a shambolic interview where she was slurring and she has been seen in public several sheets to the wind on numerous occasions. I'd assume she has a very close and intimate relationship with alcohol.

 

[Vacuous]

I think there has been something significant happen which has meant she has removed or been removed from proper shared residency. I think it's linked to alcohol dependency and its tied up with her no longer driving. I think her son has been put in boarding by his father to protect him. I also think the divorce is hurtling towards conclusion , hence the pity party, and its not looking good for her. At all.
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This ìs all opinion. I have absolutely no factual basis.

 

[Isthatso?]

That cruise looks dismal! The irony of her writing a book about women losing their way with style, then wandering around in cheap H&M dresses that most people would take a hard pass on, is surely not lost on the audience?

 

[zetta buttons]

Aw that party looks sad. Not a single friend, just a bunch of botoxed insta renta twats with gawping gobs. She used to have a home, family, dog, Sunday lunches and family dinners, proper friends. Poor bitch.

It was one of the best nights ever though! Really? Ending your night so drunk that you are so hungover that you can’t leave your flat the next day then pulling yourself round to leave for another round of drinking?

Sounds like me in my second year of uni. Not a 51 year old. She’ll soon realise this isn’t what life is about.

Seeing her next to her “friends” just highlighted how drawn she looks. She’s not a picture of health and these companies shouldn’t be using her for advertising while she’s on this path.

 

[pinkrobot]

I’m genuinely shocked at how grimy and nasty that salon looks. A pair of Madonna’s old shoes , scribbles on the walls and your hairdresser calling your hair a slut’s clump. No thanks.

Those FitFlop sandals are barking. The outfits are all terrible or deathly dull. She has totally and utterly lost her style.

 

[lagoonlia]

The Ridley Crew- the most undiverse group ever seen… if you aren’t a white, tall, skinny, Hooray Henry don’t apply. They would stab each other in the eye for a bottle of Moët

 

[Curly Top]

I don’t like that cocky hairdresser. Seriously he needs to get over himself

 

[Soapy Dolphin]

Auntie Val Vibes Landing.


She's absolutely believing wearing leather in your 50's is sexy and cool. Erm, just because its worked for Cher, love..

Leather on leathery is not a vibe.

 

[Brummiebird]

Finally addressed where ginny lives - like everyone else she left her in Sevenoaks. So she walked out of her home, her marriage, her children and her dog.
There is clearly something much much deeper going on here. Can anyone imagine doing something so apocalyptic without a very serious reason ?

And don’t forget this “highly amicable”’divorce happened in the year their eldest was sitting her A’Levels and their neurodiverse, struggling Son was sitting GCSEs. Perfect time to “amicably” divorce because you “just want to be happier”, no problems there at all. It’s just all so “amicable”.

 

[zetta buttons]

This lady on FB seems a bit cross

Wowser. Although, tbh I get where she’s coming from. I follow (have done for years) someone who I thought was really transparent. She only promoted a few brands and repeatedly wore the same kind of thing and you could tell she rewore the expensive basics.

Recently, she’s begun shilling high end fashion to H&M and everything from Estée Lauder to M and S own brand. Clothes she claims she loves in stories are now on Vinted a week later. I feel completely taken in. If this person has trusted Kat for years and sees this relatively recent change in behaviour, she probably feels taken in too.

 

[CherryBerryBear]

I watched a bit of the wine time video from 2020 (couldn’t bring myself to watch the whole thing!). She was definitely of her face on something but to me it looks more like coke rather than booze. This would also explain the erratic, hyper, full of herself behaviour. Also when I was scrolling through her feed it wasn’t that long ago she was posting about her husband being her rock, love of her life etc (only one and a half / two years ago). So weird how it went so downhill so quickly.

 

[Soapy Dolphin]

Wellness Cruise:
Look at Kat's Instagram.
Don't do that.
The End.

 

[Vacuous]

I agree. I love my no profile, rather ordinary little life.

 

[GAC37]

I'd hate that life though. I like my own house, bed, family and a steady income where no one's gawping at me and I'm using my brain.

Oh absolutely, I’d hate it too but I do resent her getting so many freebies and hate her smugness. I’m very involved with my three teens’ lives, I can’t imagine being so distant (literally and seemingly mentally). We are in exam mayhem here and I’m here to support them in any way I can, as is my husband.

 

[tarahalls]

WTH is she carting around in her satchel? How to ruin a lovely outfit, if it’s not the stupid hat it’s the school satchel or plastic flip flops She had lots of covetable handbags before her divorce, it seems she lost custody of them as well as her lovely, expensive clothes or as I still believe, Mr Farmer took the scissors to her belongings

 

[Libertine]

Aw that party looks sad. Not a single friend, just a bunch of botoxed insta renta twats with gawping gobs. She used to have a home, family, dog, Sunday lunches and family dinners, proper friends. Poor bitch.

They are a super diverse bunch, aren’t they?

 

[NellieNoo]

I saw her at an event and her eyes were so bloodshot. I think she is permanently on the sauce, or worse.

 

[Brummiebird]

Does she still have the dartboard or has that been confined to memory like her kids and dog.