John Stones #28 sticking things in his mouth…we wish he’d stick his thing in our mouths

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strawberrysunshine_x said:
I wish mine had 🙈🙈

when I 20 I was going through the process of buying a house with my then boyfriend. Just before I was 21 ( is still call it my quarter life crisis🤣) I couldn’t go through with it. Realised I hated him and his controlling ways ( he’d give me hell for going out drinking ) and dumped his ass and got drunk for 2 years. Had friends with benefits with a fit dude who turned out to be an ass and got myself a toy boy until I didn’t want him anymore either 🤣🤣🤣🤣 he was 19 it was never going to work
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Sounds like you had a lucky escape from the first guy. Its good to have a some fun while you find the right person x
 
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rasperryripple said:
Sounds like you had a lucky escape from the first guy. Its good to have a some fun while you find the right person x
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Definitely!!! I was young and didn’t realise what he was really like. It was really sudden, I woke up one day and just thought I can’t do this. He tried to manipulate me back loads of times but I was stubborn. I saw him not so long ago at soft play. I wanted to die 😭😭😭
 
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strawberrysunshine_x said:
Definitely!!! I was young and didn’t realise what he was really like. It was really sudden, I woke up one day and just thought I can’t do this. He tried to manipulate me back loads of times but I was stubborn. I saw him not so long ago at soft play. I wanted to die 😭😭😭
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He sounds like a prick and I'm glad you saw it in time ❤
 
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lou_claire91

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LurkingAnnie said:
Yeah - Same 🤣
My days post uni were my wild ones 🤣


He bloody knows it too… windmilling round the place all the time

Where’s @Violetroselily

do we think she’s on a train to @cobette so she can get in the suitcase?
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Before i went to Uni in like sixth form i was like crazy, not sleeping around but would happily kiss anyone haha! The first boy i slept with was a FWB type thing, Then we got together when i was like 18 and this became my life, apart from the breaks.

I enjoy sex, but having known RLF as a scrawny 16yo its sometimes like not as overly sexual as it should be anymore, plus with the breaks i've experienced like mindblowing sex and sometimes the thought of it not comparing whirs in my mind... When we first got together it was a lottt of sex, then not so much then when we had a break i had a LOT of sex, got another boyf during the time for a while and we would be like verging on 10 times in like 48 hours which was unheard of for me before... then when we got back together it was back to how it was before, maybe not as much but enough ... RLF is good but stamina may not be quite there which leads to frustration but since having my little one....
Everything got messed up, due to stitches and issues, things to this day still arent right, so we havent had sex for about 19/20 months or done anything, obvs i've sorted myself out at times, but have been scared more than anything and preoccupied... i honestly feel like i can tell you guys this even though for me its like super private and embarrassing slightly!!
 
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lou_claire91 said:
Before i went to Uni in like sixth form i was like crazy, not sleeping around but would happily kiss anyone haha! The first boy i slept with was a FWB type thing, Then we got together when i was like 18 and this became my life, apart from the breaks.

I enjoy sex, but having known RLF as a scrawny 16yo its sometimes like not as overly sexual as it should be anymore, plus with the breaks i've experienced like mindblowing sex and sometimes the thought of it not comparing whirs in my mind... When we first got together it was a lottt of sex, then not so much then when we had a break i had a LOT of sex, got another boyf during the time for a while and we would be like verging on 10 times in like 48 hours which was unheard of for me before... then when we got back together it was back to how it was before, maybe not as much but enough ... RLF is good but stamina may not be quite there which leads to frustration but since having my little one....
Everything got messed up, due to stitches and issues, things to this day still arent right, so we havent had sex for about 19/20 months or done anything, obvs i've sorted myself out at times, but have been scared more than anything and preoccupied... i honestly feel like i can tell you guys this even though for me its like super private and embarrassing slightly!!
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I can sympathise. Sex hurt for months for me after I had a baby. And I wasn’t up for it at allll. I’m not up for it nowadays really like I used to be. Dunno if it’s cos I’m tired feel old , self conscious or just cba 🤣 my fella is amazing in bed. Out of all the lads I’ve been with he is miles ahead of them When we got together we’d do it everyday and even when I was pregnant we did it like once a week ( not towards the end cos I was 🐳) but now sometimes it’s like a month if not longer . Or sometimes it’s 2 days in a row ( very rarely ) But we’re both happy. I’d be surprised at anyone who says their sex life stays the same after a long amount of time / having babies 🥺💗

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He knows he’s hung… he just likes to put on a show at times 🤣
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This is hilarious !!!!

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Wonder what their fav sex position is 💭
 
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lou_claire91 said:
Before i went to Uni in like sixth form i was like crazy, not sleeping around but would happily kiss anyone haha! The first boy i slept with was a FWB type thing, Then we got together when i was like 18 and this became my life, apart from the breaks.

I enjoy sex, but having known RLF as a scrawny 16yo its sometimes like not as overly sexual as it should be anymore, plus with the breaks i've experienced like mindblowing sex and sometimes the thought of it not comparing whirs in my mind... When we first got together it was a lottt of sex, then not so much then when we had a break i had a LOT of sex, got another boyf during the time for a while and we would be like verging on 10 times in like 48 hours which was unheard of for me before... then when we got back together it was back to how it was before, maybe not as much but enough ... RLF is good but stamina may not be quite there which leads to frustration but since having my little one....
Everything got messed up, due to stitches and issues, things to this day still arent right, so we havent had sex for about 19/20 months or done anything, obvs i've sorted myself out at times, but have been scared more than anything and preoccupied... i honestly feel like i can tell you guys this even though for me its like super private and embarrassing slightly!!
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Do not be embarrassed! It shouldn't be taboo to talk about. Loads of women feel that way after having a baby. Has it caused friction between you? Is he supportive?

@strawberrysunshine_x is right, sometimes when you've been together a long time things like this just happen.
 
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lou_claire91 said:
Before i went to Uni in like sixth form i was like crazy, not sleeping around but would happily kiss anyone haha! The first boy i slept with was a FWB type thing, Then we got together when i was like 18 and this became my life, apart from the breaks.

I enjoy sex, but having known RLF as a scrawny 16yo its sometimes like not as overly sexual as it should be anymore, plus with the breaks i've experienced like mindblowing sex and sometimes the thought of it not comparing whirs in my mind... When we first got together it was a lottt of sex, then not so much then when we had a break i had a LOT of sex, got another boyf during the time for a while and we would be like verging on 10 times in like 48 hours which was unheard of for me before... then when we got back together it was back to how it was before, maybe not as much but enough ... RLF is good but stamina may not be quite there which leads to frustration but since having my little one....
Everything got messed up, due to stitches and issues, things to this day still arent right, so we havent had sex for about 19/20 months or done anything, obvs i've sorted myself out at times, but have been scared more than anything and preoccupied... i honestly feel like i can tell you guys this even though for me its like super private and embarrassing slightly!!
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despite not having a baby, I can completely sympathise with you…
All my treatment has caused a lot of scar tissue which meant we’ve only really started attempting sex this year. We’ve done other things before this year, but feel inadequate is a complete turn off for me, and that’s generally how I’ve felt.
gaining confidence in my own body has helped a lot, but it’s been really hard work.
Things aren’t perfect for us, and won’t ever go back to how it was, but it’s our new normal - which is why we’ve probs been a bit more rampant recently
 
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LurkingAnnie said:
despite not having a baby, I can completely sympathise with you…
All my treatment has caused a lot of scar tissue which meant we’ve only really started attempting sex this year. We’ve done other things before this year, but feel inadequate is a complete turn off for me, and that’s generally how I’ve felt.
gaining confidence in my own body has helped a lot, but it’s been really hard work.
Things aren’t perfect for us, and won’t ever go back to how it was, but it’s our new normal - which is why we’ve probs been a bit more rampant recently
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You're amazing xxx
 
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lou_claire91 said:
Before i went to Uni in like sixth form i was like crazy, not sleeping around but would happily kiss anyone haha! The first boy i slept with was a FWB type thing, Then we got together when i was like 18 and this became my life, apart from the breaks.

I enjoy sex, but having known RLF as a scrawny 16yo its sometimes like not as overly sexual as it should be anymore, plus with the breaks i've experienced like mindblowing sex and sometimes the thought of it not comparing whirs in my mind... When we first got together it was a lottt of sex, then not so much then when we had a break i had a LOT of sex, got another boyf during the time for a while and we would be like verging on 10 times in like 48 hours which was unheard of for me before... then when we got back together it was back to how it was before, maybe not as much but enough ... RLF is good but stamina may not be quite there which leads to frustration but since having my little one....
Everything got messed up, due to stitches and issues, things to this day still arent right, so we havent had sex for about 19/20 months or done anything, obvs i've sorted myself out at times, but have been scared more than anything and preoccupied... i honestly feel like i can tell you guys this even though for me its like super private and embarrassing slightly!!
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I have been with RLF since I was 18. Loads of sex when we were first together and it’s definitely got better with experience but less frequent.
I honestly think having a baby was the best thing that happened to me but my sex life was non existent for at least 6 months too frightened after stitches and just knackered. It did come back but at the time I didn’t think it would.
I think all these fics I have been reading has spiced things up as its better than it’s ever been just now 😉
 
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lou_claire91 said:
Before i went to Uni in like sixth form i was like crazy, not sleeping around but would happily kiss anyone haha! The first boy i slept with was a FWB type thing, Then we got together when i was like 18 and this became my life, apart from the breaks.

I enjoy sex, but having known RLF as a scrawny 16yo its sometimes like not as overly sexual as it should be anymore, plus with the breaks i've experienced like mindblowing sex and sometimes the thought of it not comparing whirs in my mind... When we first got together it was a lottt of sex, then not so much then when we had a break i had a LOT of sex, got another boyf during the time for a while and we would be like verging on 10 times in like 48 hours which was unheard of for me before... then when we got back together it was back to how it was before, maybe not as much but enough ... RLF is good but stamina may not be quite there which leads to frustration but since having my little one....
Everything got messed up, due to stitches and issues, things to this day still arent right, so we havent had sex for about 19/20 months or done anything, obvs i've sorted myself out at times, but have been scared more than anything and preoccupied... i honestly feel like i can tell you guys this even though for me its like super private and embarrassing slightly!!
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it's so common, please don't feel embarrassed. I think we all have a higher sex drive before babies, now half the time I literally cannot be bothered. I'm so tired, I'm so over being clung on to, sleep is the only time I truly get to myself so it is precious (and even then I've got RLF/LO/dog on my pillow).

We didn't have sex for 6 months after I had LO. I just couldn't face it. It was fine after, no different to before, but I was really lucky and had a straightforward birth and a tear that healed well, that totally isn't the case for a lot of people. I don't feel like myself, 3 years later, I'm certainly lumpier and bumpier but I try to ignore those feelings in the moment.

Totally totally normal ❤
 
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Starttheline said:
it's so common, please don't feel embarrassed. I think we all have a higher sex drive before babies, now half the time I literally cannot be bothered. I'm so tired, I'm so over being clung on to, sleep is the only time I truly get to myself so it is precious (and even then I've got RLF/LO/dog on my pillow).

We didn't have sex for 6 months after I had LO. I just couldn't face it. It was fine after, no different to before, but I was really lucky and had a straightforward birth and a tear that healed well, that totally isn't the case for a lot of people. I don't feel like myself, 3 years later, I'm certainly lumpier and bumpier but I try to ignore those feelings in the moment.

Totally totally normal ❤
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you have summed up my life really. I either have a three year old attached to me or the dog wants to cuddle up to my fella 🙈 we rarely get time together but we get by and it makes it extra special when we do 😁. I’m not bothered If we don’t have sex but it’s nice to do it at the same time 🤣. Between work and a toddler were both worn out and Don’t always Have the energy and that’s ok. Also in so self conscious cos I used to be really slim & now I’m not. And I also feel haggard 🤣 I’m only 27🤨
 
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lou_claire91 said:
Before i went to Uni in like sixth form i was like crazy, not sleeping around but would happily kiss anyone haha! The first boy i slept with was a FWB type thing, Then we got together when i was like 18 and this became my life, apart from the breaks.

I enjoy sex, but having known RLF as a scrawny 16yo its sometimes like not as overly sexual as it should be anymore, plus with the breaks i've experienced like mindblowing sex and sometimes the thought of it not comparing whirs in my mind... When we first got together it was a lottt of sex, then not so much then when we had a break i had a LOT of sex, got another boyf during the time for a while and we would be like verging on 10 times in like 48 hours which was unheard of for me before... then when we got back together it was back to how it was before, maybe not as much but enough ... RLF is good but stamina may not be quite there which leads to frustration but since having my little one....
Everything got messed up, due to stitches and issues, things to this day still arent right, so we havent had sex for about 19/20 months or done anything, obvs i've sorted myself out at times, but have been scared more than anything and preoccupied... i honestly feel like i can tell you guys this even though for me its like super private and embarrassing slightly!!
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It's perfectly normal, I think the mamas here can - and have described it better than I could, having no kids. I'm really happy to know that we have a place here where we can talk about all of these things, get opinions from different perspectives, and generally just let it out sometimes.

Have you considered talking to a specialist about it? There's help and techniques, and toys that might help you with the issues due to stitches and the dysaesthesia that happens due to the tearing of tissue.

Lots of love! ❤
 
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