I'm not unsympathetic at anyone having to work late hours. However, I can't be a hypocrite, I find her recent moaning about her job a tad insufferable.I have to admit as much as she irritates me, I totally feel for her going out to work when others are going to bed, I’m a few years off her age and I know how I need my bed in a decent time of an evening. She actually looked like she was going to cry. I know we can say it’s her own fault for not planning her retirement but I think there are many in that boat who are self employed and it’s not like she’s had a huge income as she’s not an A lister personality. But for her to retire will mean a huge change in her living circumstances and that’s what I think she is struggling with.
I think she is genuinely unaware of how privileged she is. There will be people watching her, feeling sorry for her, and living in very straightened circumstances themselves. Liz Jones who also has an over reliance on expensive things, when facing bankruptcy, was being sent money by pensioners. People buy into someone, and it takes a lot to change their opinions even if the evidence is strong that they are living a privileged life far removed from themselves. It’s interesting from a psychological perspective.I'm not unsympathetic at anyone having to work late hours. However, I can't be a hypocrite, I find her recent moaning about her job a tad insufferable.
I've spent most of my working life working unsociable and mad hours, but it was my career and I just got on with it, until I couldn't cope anymore and got another position that afforded me daytime hours, with the occasional night shift.
Perhaps if MAM budgeted wisely and stopped with her incessant and ott spending on designer items, she wouldn't have to work on the late shift, also it's not like she has to endure a12 hour shift in a hospital for little pay and make her own way home. She's ferried home by taxi.
I'm afraid my sympathy for her is in short supply.
Living near Marylebone/Euston Road is not great for asthma.Her asthma sounds terrible. I hope she’s taking her medication
I know what you mean. I used to do night shifts as part of my nurse training and I used to cry getting ready to leave….then again it was 3 back to back 12 hour shiftsI have to admit as much as she irritates me, I totally feel for her going out to work when others are going to bed, I’m a few years off her age and I know how I need my bed in a decent time of an evening. She actually looked like she was going to cry. I know we can say it’s her own fault for not planning her retirement but I think there are many in that boat who are self employed and it’s not like she’s had a huge income as she’s not an A lister personality. But for her to retire will mean a huge change in her living circumstances and that’s what I think she is struggling with.
You're right @House of Tea about the psychological perspective on this - and that other narc designer-lover Liz Jones is a good example. One of GOB's commenters said if they were a millionaire they would take care of her, this is typical of the parasocial relationships many followers develop, and which vloggers/influencers/whatever are happy to exploit. GOB goes on about her loyal community, but is glad they expect nothing but the odd "thsnkyouxxx" reply, the lucky few who get a reply probably feel very special as a result.I think she is genuinely unaware of how privileged she is. There will be people watching her, feeling sorry for her, and living in very straightened circumstances themselves. Liz Jones who also has an over reliance on expensive things, when facing bankruptcy, was being sent money by pensioners. People buy into someone, and it takes a lot to change their opinions even if the evidence is strong that they are living a privileged life far removed from themselves. It’s interesting from a psychological perspective.
Yes, interesting comparison, perhaps it's the need to live vicariously through others, a glimpse of what they might never expect to experience, which is no problem if it cheers them up and they don't get suckered in to buying crap and thinking she's their friend. One of GOB's regulars commented on the recent vlog that she too is in her 60s and single and scaled back for her health but it means money is tight. This same person has previously said they've bought items on Jo's recommendation (including paying £60 for shampoo and conditioner to be shipped to the UK from the USA) as they trust what she says. They obviously don't understand she is just a GOB for hire. Meanwhile Jo "sustain-a-billy-tee" Good happily accepts affiliate commissions, I'm sure this poor woman's hair was no better or worse than if she'd bought a quality shampoo from up the street.I thought with this cost of living crisis there would be a demise of influencers. But the reverse seems to be true. People gawping at people better off than them. A bit like the royal family. Not suggesting she is on a par with them. But the principle.
That’s awful. They are adults I guess, with free choice, but it does make you pause for thought. We live in crazy times.Yes, interesting comparison, perhaps it's the need to live vicariously through others, a glimpse of what they might never expect to experience, which is no problem if it cheers them up and they don't get suckered in to buying crap and thinking she's their friend. One of GOB's regulars commented on the recent vlog that she too is in her 60s and single and scaled back for her health but it means money is tight. This same person has previously said they've bought items on Jo's recommendation (including paying £60 for shampoo and conditioner to be shipped to the UK from the USA) as they trust what she says. They obviously don't understand she is just a GOB for hire. Meanwhile Jo "sustain-a-billy-tee" Good happily accepts affiliate commissions, I'm sure this poor woman's hair was no better or worse than if she'd bought a quality shampoo from up the street.
This proves how tone-deaf and unself-aware she is. A blanket is such a symbolic item but GOB would never think about it in relation to anyone except herself. As has already been said, she's likely completely unaware of her privilege, she probably compares herself to rich-girl influencers and the wealthy Marylebone widows she sees everyday so is sending herself broke and making herself ill trying to keep up.Her acting was atrocious as she reacted to the Blanket. Not surprised the roles dried up.
Any company that would 'gift' MAM an expensive blanket, especially in these difficult times, is an immediate turn off.
I appreciate any company may do as they wish to advertise but this doesn't sit well with me. Giving free gifts to someone who quite clearly can afford to buy ridiculously expensive clothing is just so off.
You have articulated that so well and have the 'measure' of her and her shenanigansThis proves how tone-deaf and unself-aware she is. A blanket is such a symbolic item but GOB would never think about it in relation to anyone except herself. As has already been said, she's likely completely unaware of her privilege, she probably compares herself to rich-girl influencers and the wealthy Marylebone widows she sees everyday so is sending herself broke and making herself ill trying to keep up.