Jessiika Wilson #9 She is beauty, she is grace…but only when she filters the ish out of her face

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But this one is a second hand, free one, so she won’t care it they trash it. It will be another thing they can play on while she sits of her arse watching Netflix.

Random question - Why does she watch her shows on on her laptop? Does she not have streaming on her tv?
Even if she set it up initially on her laptop she should be able to log into it on her TV.
I did the same, I initially set it up on my tablet the just use my log in on the TV
 
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One of the kids will be on the bleeping ground soon enough because they will fall right through it.
Bowie already has recently and she posted a photo of it on her stories. 😳

So Goldie gets six dolls for Christmas, one of which looks like a toy for a newborn. Seriously? Couldn't think of literally anything else for a bit of variety or diversity for your poor kids? A book? A ball? Literally anything but dolls? Her kid's gifts are so boring and gender specific. Even when she was talking about the hoverboard things she was saying how they even have a girl's one (because there's a pink one) as if a girl couldn't use a blue one. bleeping MORON!
 
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Bowie already has recently and she posted a photo of it on her stories. 😳

So Goldie gets six dolls for Christmas, one of which looks like a toy for a newborn. Seriously? Couldn't think of literally anything else for a bit of variety or diversity for your poor kids? A book? A ball? Literally anything but dolls? Her kid's gifts are so boring and gender specific. Even when she was talking about the hoverboard things she was saying how they even have a girl's one (because there's a pink one) as if a girl couldn't use a blue one. bleeping MORON!
I thought the same re hover boards.

She literally buys Goldie a doll every occasion. She also got her all the doll accessories one year and we’ve never seen her use them.

I also feel like the Batman doll is probably a repeat gift, he also seems too old for it. He’s got that entire (broken) rattan toy box full of all figures and dolls from previous years 🙄 why not get him a Lego car too and they can build together. I have three boys close in age and I can tell you they want similar stuff so they can play it, build it, use it together!

I love how she said she didn’t want to buy the nerf gun but got it anyway because that’s what he wanted. Can’t wait for him to ask for alcohol or drugs or something else inappropriate that she doesn’t want him to have but provides it anyway because he wanted it!!
 
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Like her or not, Roxy Jacenko packed 400 boxes of stock yesterday. The difference between her and our Jesssiiii.
Jessiikkaaa packs 50 boxes and needs a lie down.
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Jesssii has been pretty quiet today. Maybe she's actually packing her orders at last? Or is that too generous 🤣

Eta: nevermind, I see that she's painting. Much more important than getting her orders out!
 
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Shouldn't they have painted the posts before putting the fence mesh on? You can see the white paint on the edges of the mesh, it makes it look messy.
 
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So I’ve been super busy the past few days and this bish has really triggered me. A free trampoline from her 20 year old sisters for xmas😩no new clothes for Bowie. Max of 4 things each for the boys but let’s bet this c of a mother gets some ugly designer thing for herself from that sleazy thing she is married too. The dog needs to be rehomed and that fence Hahaha honestly what is that. I’m sorry I’m a good week behind here

Also those chairs need to be on a hard rubbish collection and my biggest ick is missing teeth😂
 
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So I’ve been super busy the past few days and this bish has really triggered me. A free trampoline from her 20 year old sisters for xmas😩no new clothes for Bowie. Max of 4 things each for the boys but let’s bet this c of a mother gets some ugly designer thing for herself from that sleazy thing she is married too. The dog needs to be rehomed and that fence Hahaha honestly what is that. I’m sorry I’m a good week behind here

Also those chairs need to be on a hard rubbish collection and my biggest ick is missing teeth😂
As Jess spiel say “it’s a vibe” 🙄

She’s a farking train wreck, everything she does is wrong, she’s a pitiful person & bleep mother
 
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Like her or not, Roxy Jacenko packed 400 boxes of stock yesterday. The difference between her and our Jesssiiii.
Jessiikkaaa packs 50 boxes and needs a lie down.
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Another classic example of adhd. This used to be me. Jessi please, babes, get assessed

I'm the same too. I'm medicated and yes it helps a tonne but it's still a big conscious effort that never ends. I'd be ignoring my kids all day if I wanted my house to be perfect. Jess ignores her kids AND her house chores.
Completely agree that disorganisation and messy home are typical for adhd, which is ironic because we work best, and prefer to be in, clean environments. But with the all or nothing mentality that comes with adhd, it can be really overwhelming to start cleaning a messy house as we see it as one big task to complete, whereas a neurotyoical person will just clean a room or two at a time. A classic example for Jessi is the 3 hour deep clean the other day, I can only assume she hyper focused. I will say though that some people, particularly women, appear very organised and have super tidy homes. That’s a learnt masking behaviour, I do that a lot. I’m super early to things, and prepare wah in advance, because I’ve learnt I need to otherwise I’m late and unorganised and let loved ones down. I also decluttered a lot and try to live minimally (as much as a young family can) so I have a better chance of staying on top of the housework and mess.

Also the motivating factors for people with adhd are external, which is why we do things at last minute, or might race around and clean up right before we are due to have guests over or our partner comes home from work. Jessi used to clean right before her cleaner came at the old house, or she packs bloom orders at the very end of an acceptable time frame to be dispatching them. She waits until the packaging for her Christmas albums run out, even if she did realise the Christmas party orders will make her run short, because she left it to the very last minute to complete that task of ordering more. She doesn’t have that internal motivation that neurotypical people have.

On her stories tonight before they leave for Bowies dinner, where she comments on Phil’s safari outfit, you can see piles of stuff everywhere. Again super typical for adhd to go to the effort of piling things up, put clutter in a drawer or bag, and then never completely follow through by then taking the next step of putting the things in the pile (or bag or drawer) away.

Binge eating is also typical, I feel like we see that in her constant intake of Coca Cola, maccas, takeaway. People with adhd with a lower baseline of dopamine so they are constantly seeking dopamine hits, one way to get a dopamine hit is through junk food / binge eating. On the topic of how much coke she drinks, undiagnosed adhd people usually unwittingly medicate themselves with caffeine - coke or coffee. It’s because it’s a stimulant, as is a prescribed adhd medication, so it’s actually having a different effect on her than a neurotypical . I used to have min 4 coffees a day before being diagnosed, if anything I’d be able to take a nap after a coffee. It completely explains her Coca Cola and coffee addiction.

Personal hygiene also typically lacks in adhd because of too many steps involved, or sensory issues. An example for Jessi was the lack of aftercare during her mummy makeover, and lack of care for her body even now after going to all that effort. She eats crap and doesn’t exercise.

Which then leads to the example of hyper focus and impulsivity for her, the way she cycles through hobbies like ice skating, the bike (I think?), projects around the house. She rarely follows through and finishes the project before starting another one - typical adhd. It’s also the all or nothing mentality of adhd. If she’s not good at something right away she doesn’t get a dopamine hit, then she gives up easily as her brain actually cannot muster up enough motivation to continue.
 
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Sorry just need to add - the way she sits on her arse all day - it’s call adhd paralysis.

I just read back and can see a couple of people are over the speculative diagnosis. I acknowledge that. I’m going to leave my post up though as I feel the speculation is valid. Adhd in women presents differently than the stereotype we thought it was 10-20 years ago. Even hyperactivity doesn’t need to be external, it can be internal hyperactivity, feeling like you have 20 tabs open in your mind at once.

I fully agree, she clearly favours Goldie first and Bowie last. She skirted around bowies surprise pregnancy enough to strongly indicate she had gender disappointment with him. She feeds into gender stereotypes, doesn’t follow up on the health or safety needs, and I doubt owns a stain remover. I feel strongly though this indicates the issues with her executive functioning and ability to complete basic tasks. Especially tasks like housework which give little to no dopamine hits.

I speculate she has ADHD though because I really hope she explores it. A diagnosis would change her children's lives for the better.
 
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Sorry just need to add - the way she sits on her arse all day - it’s call adhd paralysis.

I just read back and can see a couple of people are over the speculative diagnosis. I acknowledge that. I’m going to leave my post up though as I feel the speculation is valid. Adhd in women presents differently than the stereotype we thought it was 10-20 years ago. Even hyperactivity doesn’t need to be external, it can be internal hyperactivity, feeling like you have 20 tabs open in your mind at once.

I fully agree, she clearly favours Goldie first and Bowie last. She skirted around bowies surprise pregnancy enough to strongly indicate she had gender disappointment with him. She feeds into gender stereotypes, doesn’t follow up on the health or safety needs, and I doubt owns a stain remover. I feel strongly though this indicates the issues with her executive functioning and ability to complete basic tasks. Especially tasks like housework which give little to no dopamine hits.

I speculate she has ADHD though because I really hope she explores it. A diagnosis would change her children's lives for the better.
This was all really interesting to read! Thank You 💕
 
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Sorry just need to add - the way she sits on her arse all day - it’s call adhd paralysis.

I just read back and can see a couple of people are over the speculative diagnosis. I acknowledge that. I’m going to leave my post up though as I feel the speculation is valid. Adhd in women presents differently than the stereotype we thought it was 10-20 years ago. Even hyperactivity doesn’t need to be external, it can be internal hyperactivity, feeling like you have 20 tabs open in your mind at once.

I fully agree, she clearly favours Goldie first and Bowie last. She skirted around bowies surprise pregnancy enough to strongly indicate she had gender disappointment with him. She feeds into gender stereotypes, doesn’t follow up on the health or safety needs, and I doubt owns a stain remover. I feel strongly though this indicates the issues with her executive functioning and ability to complete basic tasks. Especially tasks like housework which give little to no dopamine hits.

I speculate she has ADHD though because I really hope she explores it. A diagnosis would change her children's lives for the better.
I relate so much to all that you said. The paralysis you described and the overwhelm of completing a task resonate especially. My psychologist of 16 years just thinks it's depression but I've gotten a referral from my GP for a psychiatrist who specialises in ADHD. Son's school also suspects my son has it.
 
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