I’ll be honest and say that I am 100% judging her. It’s hard not to. She doesn’t even TRY. She never prioritises these kids, offloads the boys constantly and doesn’t actively engage with them in a way that might actually help her to understand their needs. Each of those sweet kids are only going to get more complex and demanding as they get older, so investing some time and energy now, instead of twerking her stupid ass and binge watching Netflix, will help her get back in control of the things she finds so deeply overwhelming about parenting.I’m not going to judge someone for not being able to take care of their children, I’m sure lots of women struggle. However, if that’s the case, she should be reaching out and getting help, taking parenting classes, talking to a psychologist. You can’t just opt out. Or ditch a child because it’s just too hard.