LavenderMoss
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I always get the impression that she genuinely worries if he spends time away from her/the family he may cheat, or purposely cause tension to split. Covid winding down makes it seem like her anxiety is rising about this. She admitted to keeping tabs and snooping on women she knows he was with during the split ( which I understand why ...even if it isn’t healthy).Thanks for mentioning the podcast was up on Spotify, I missed it on YouTube and hadn't realised i could get it there.
I have a lot of respect for Jessie and have been following this thread recently. I think she's talented and open and has a unique point of view. I do think her and Bebe are super quick to talk about "when you were fat" when they really weren't much heavier. But food and body image is so personal and subjective I understand its difficult to navigate in an honest way yet be 100% responsible. I can understand it would be a cause of discussion here.
However what really bothers me is Alfie. His comedy is basic and contrarian and wouldn't be at all interesting without the counter point she brings to his life. I have major issue with his beliefs over using the 'n' word and how he comes across in this podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podca...word-alfie-brown/id1370978944?i=1000414121585
From stories he and Jessie have shared i feel like he binge drinks, lies to her a lot and gaslights Jessie into thinking she's not fun for getting angry about when he said he'd be home. He has three kids and I feel like he acts like she trapped him. How much he slept around after they broke up, I just think is gross.
Above is my opinion having followed them since she first had Donnie and I obviously don't know them personally. Its super dumb that I care, he's the father to her kids but I always want to yell that she's right for being angry with him and he's a dick!
However...Jessie is obviously slightly neurotic ( I am too ...so I get it ) so wherever she is actually concerned or simply being pessimistic is
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They evidently keep drifting towards each other and she knows what type of ‘lad’ he is so...obviously there is something magnetic between them.
Oh, and yes! He seems at risk of turning into those men who complain and whine about settling down and get nostalgic about the good ol’ days ... also if you know your partner is a homebody you should have both worked out how to compromise.
This is based off the impression that he gives of begrudgingly being a ‘family man’.