I used to like her too but she wasn’t ready for a baby at all and she can’t stand that she has someone depending on her when she wants to do her own thing. Like someone else mentioned I believe she’s got some unsolved issues regarding Amber/ Ambers Birth which would of been brushed under the carpet like when her whole birth plan went out the window and she said it’s totally fine though I think James gives her some off pep talks rather than her feelings be validated especially after she announced she liked her new finger size
maybe once she’s gifted done help support and counselling she will get things addresses she will be a better mum once she gets some help personality the anxiety and co dependency should of been look into before having a baby