ShadyBadger
Chatty Member
Isn’t it digital detox day she needs to get off social media it’s making her crazy oh just noticed that’s tomorrow but still this girl is crazy and I think it’s her addiction to Instagram
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At the end of the day this is a gossip thread about Carys to discuss what she does, so I completely get your point about her saying she only uses products to the guidelines even though she doesn’t - I completely get that and I agree with you! But I think your comment could have ended there, and I think other people take offence/feel mum shamed when you then started to project your opinion about those things onto everyone else, and the language you used, for example saying you think they should only be used if a parent “needs” to do something (heaven forbid you put a baby in one for their own entertainment), or using the word ‘dump’ (implies anyone who has used one just shoved their baby in it and left them/doesn’t bother to parent properly). I don’t want to go on and on about it just wanted to explain why your post may have offended some peopleyeah that's my opinion on them really. I don't want to use them but don't care if other people do (my mum has had 6 kids and we all used jumperoos/walkers, you name it). My original comment was the fact that they were adamant they only used products like the sleepyhead things as recommended and to the guidelines, yet have a jumperoo with cushions under (presumably because they are using it early and amber is too short), and using sit me up chairs that aren't recommended until baby can sit unaided first themselves, putting amber forward facing in the carrier early.
Wasn't hate for her using these products, more just to the fact she's using them incorrectly when previously would be passive aggressive that they follow the guidelines and wouldn't use a product in the wrong way
also saying my baby isn't at that stage yet, when my baby is older than Carys' and she's using these products is fucking funny to mebang on about mum shaming but some of you get so arsy when you think you're being "shamed" and make accusations that I must have a perfect baby that will just lay wherever and she must not be at the moves around stage etc, when she is far from that. I guess if I told you she's been rolling since 3 months and trying to crawl and pull herself up at 5 months would just be me bragging though
some people get so touchy about things on here sometimes
Maybe she is trying to look like Elle?
I have that impression..
plwcm
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just had a look, it looks fabulousAnyone seen Zoe Suggs nursery tour? It’s gorgeous! Makes Carys look even more terrible!! Those bloody stickers
Carys' is so tacky, idk what she was thinking with the wall stickers Winging-it!
Active member
Hmm. I agree. Which is sad really. I started watching carys and James about four years ago just after I had my first child and they were so different then, around the same time I started watching hayley paige. I feel like social media has sucked the essence of them out. Hayley paige I watched crash and burn and it made for painful viewing. I feel like I'm watching the same here. A car crash in slow motion.
theleftphalange
Chatty Member
I follow a few mums that do the ‘swipe up to see the outfit!’ thing and it pisses me offYeah that swipe up to see the outfit thing was horrible so sly and out of order hopefully nobody gave a shit so didn’t swipe I certainly didn’t
And great a video just to show off her tits and arse
plwcm
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I'll admit I got a bit pissy about it, but only because I couldn't see how I was mum shaming (and I'm having a bad day so probably added to my attitudeI for one was not offended by anything you said, genuinely couldn’t give two fucks whether you judge me for using an iPad, jumperoo, baby seat or whatever else, I’m not a remotely precious parent. I was merely pointing out that when our babies aren’t even crawling yet sometimes we make grand statements about things we will never do and further down the line that can changebut apologies, clearly you are more clued up than I am.
Anyway as Carys would say, you do you and all that, I won’t derail this thread anymore
). I couldn't care less how people parent, makes no difference to my life, I was just pointing out her hypocrisy at following guidelines, then agreed with another poster at not seeing the point/wanting to use one myself. I apologise to anyone offended. while I don't want to use a jumperoo, I have considered it for many reasons mentioned by others, but decided not to. Like i said, my mum used them and we are all fine. So sorry if people thought I was saying jumperoo = shit mum because that's not what I meant at all. I might be a FTM but I'm not clueless about things, and I won't be changing my mind when she crawls as she's almost there anyway. I might change my mind if we have a second child though, so you never know We can just agree to have differing opinions and leave it there. Sorry if anyone did get offended
ShadyBadger
Chatty Member
Omfg I couldn’t sit through the video so skipped but wow it wasn’t even well timed he thought she was going to say what would you prefer and he would of said a different wife but she changes the word to which would be your favourite (a different wife) I don’t think anyone even noticed edited that and I think he assumed it would of been edited out he looks really weird! I can’t tell if he’s fed up of his wife getting her bits out for the gram or if he really doesn’t like her mum body so rather she cover it up. Actually can’t believe that and who would even say it and it implies that he rather the model in the basic swimsuit than a chubby wife in something revealing is that a bit of real James coming throughJust watched the swimwear video, did anyone notice at 11:22, Carys says: "do you know what James's favourite would be?" And he says "a different wife?" under his breath... to the point where Carys doesn't hear/reacthe's obviously joking but I thought it was quite a weird thing to say. He also went really weird when she showed him the model photo and was sitting scrolling through trying to order more swimsuits for her; no wonder she's trying to push how much she loves her new body if that's how he acts.
Lmao getting emotional over a vase
CarlyBear94
Chatty Member
TMI Cary's!! We don't need to know thisView attachment 738137
I feel EXACTLY how you’re looking in the photo - meaning you’re give me a HEADACHE with your lies! I find it hard to believe that as a grown woman her periods were light enough for a panty liner.
baby.number.3
Member
Exactly, she’s already confirmed she’s going Lanzarote soonHaha and Elle will come straight back and snatch it back like when she had Saint
CarlyBear94
Chatty Member
If only she'd take a leaf outta his bookI know it’s mostly humour on here saying James is gay but can you imagine if he left her for a man or she knows he has gay tendencies so feels the need to be all arse snd tits to try and keep his attention
Evitachewit
Member
I think they have started to wean Amber! I have the same spoon for my little one
only noticed as I use the same spoon for my little boy
In her recent post you can see a tommee tippee spoon in front of Amber I reckon they already have started to wean heranother braggy milestone storyliterally quick Google and it says babies can sit with support from 3 months old, and as they get closer to 6 months can sit with less and less support. I only knew babies can sit around 5 months because my baby was doing it just before then too, but i just thought that was normal, not early
only noticed as I use the same spoon for my little boy