James and Carys #11 baby’s not perfect they won’t admit, Carys is ashamed of her tits.

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I’ve been watching Cary’s old videos on her busybee channel and I can’t get over how different she seems! You’d swear it was a different person
It’s literally as soon as they moved into their house now is when she started becoming tit, it’s crazy watching blogs from her old house with how happy she was compared to how
 
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I just saw someone’s comment saying we don’t know what she’s like behind closed doors in regards to why she won’t go anywhere without James and it made me think. You know how in the past she’s admitted to being a jealous and possessive girlfriend? She said she always thought James would meet someone else, she would be paranoid about who he was talking to on his phone, obsessed with her looks etc… but she also said she isn’t like that now and I’m not buying it. Sorry Carys, but I’m not. I think that’s (partially) what all this is about. Her body looking the way it does post baby will be making her think those things all over again and I bet when she “can’t” go anywhere without James, she actually can, but she doesn’t want to leave him at home alone or she’s worried what he’ll do if she’s not there. Is he going to text someone, is he going to meet someone, is he going to get his jollies to pornhub over someone who looks like I used to, and so on. I get the overwhelming sensation that she’s insecure again (or it never went away) and now it’s worse because of her post baby body and she wants to keep him close but she’s playing it off as anxiety. No no, I’m not jealous and paranoid, I have anxiety so we need to be together all the time.
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Perhaps, she’ll upgrade him. So, he’ll stop thinking he’s irreplaceable. Then, he’ll get in formation. Or, Carys can call him a cab and put his stuff in a box to the left. She should try that surfboard. Especially, since he’s put a ring on it. You know she’s crazy in love. In her mind, she’ll get back bootylicious. Keep her good hair. Then, she’ll run the world 😂
 
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“Taking some days off social media. Protect my mental health”

OK Cary….Tick that box to keep trying as hard as possible to stay relevant

And of course they’re BOTH doing it, heaven forbid they did ANYTHING alone.
 
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“Taking some days off social media. Protect my mental health”

OK Cary….Tick that box to keep trying as hard as possible to stay relevant

And of course they’re BOTH doing it, heaven forbid they did ANYTHING alone.
Talking about “new parent life” but she also made a point of saying on stories just the other day that Amber isn’t a newborn anymore. It seems she just picks and chooses when Amber is a newborn and when they are new parents.

Carys took zero time off social media when Amber was an actual newborn, they both would’ve benefited so much more at that time to settle into things but practically every day since Amber has been born Carys has been on Instagram posting multiple stories every day. Like instead of shoving your baby in front of the camera on insta stories to “say hello” at 3 months old, just spend time with her off camera.
 
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Talking about “new parent life” but she also made a point of saying on stories just the other day that Amber isn’t a newborn anymore. It seems she just picks and chooses when Amber is a newborn and when they are new parents.

Carys took zero time off social media when Amber was an actual newborn, they both would’ve benefited so much more at that time to settle into things but practically every day since Amber has been born Carys has been on Instagram posting multiple stories every day.
Exactly this! I’m certainly not saying I’m parent of the year but my baby is 3 weeks younger than Amber & I wouldn’t say he was a newborn or that I was a new parent! By 8 weeks you kind of know what ‘#mumlife’ is & what your baby wants so at 3 months old it’s not really an excuse considering they don’t actually do a real job! Imagine getting bloody overwhelmed filming yourself painting a shed, putting up some pictures & uploading it to YouTube 😂😂😂
 
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I think it's a positive they're taking time off because at the end of the day they are real humans with real human needs, and that's where the influencer thing unravels.
James should apply for some jobs, to give them peace of mind that they can actually quit social media all together if they need to, to give them something to talk about and to give Carys the gift of realising she doesn't need him there 24/7.
 
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I think it's a positive they're taking time off because at the end of the day they are real humans with real human needs, and that's where the influencer thing unravels.
James should apply for some jobs, to give them peace of mind that they can actually quit social media all together if they need to, to give them something to talk about and to give Carys the gift of realising she doesn't need him there 24/7.
I would have to have this situation if it were me, there is no way I would want both of us relying on a job as unstable as being ‘influencers’. It’s a saturated market and newbies entering the scene left right and centre.
 
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I would have to have this situation if it were me, there is no way I would want both of us relying on a job as unstable as being ‘influencers’. It’s a saturated market and newbies entering the scene left right and centre.
Carys is flogging any old crap while drilling a message of being true to yourself, it’s totally contradictory. She doesn’t pay for anything clothes wise but says find clothes you’re comfortable in - try gaining 2 sizes after pregnancy but you’re on maternity pay so you can’t afford all new clothes. It’s so out of touch and lacking in awareness. She doesn’t even know what she is now, mummy influencer, fitness? She runs on about empowerment then alienates and gate keeps with ‘mum life’ everything, it’s offensive to so many women. And finally she says ‘the least interesting thing is your body’ when she’s built a whole career around her damn body!! Her days are numbered unless she can ditch the ads and spons, find herself and simply rely on monetising the YouTube vids.

I can’t see ‘influencers’ being around for much longer in general. They’re all on the blatant beg and it’s tacky af. No one is believable, it’s all a cash grab. Even the big brands are devaluing themselves by using this cheap labour instead of using real models and proper set-ups. There’s no integrity, no aspiration, no effort and assumes customers are easily lead. Consumers will get fed up I think.
 
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I think it's a positive they're taking time off because at the end of the day they are real humans with real human needs, and that's where the influencer thing unravels.
James should apply for some jobs, to give them peace of mind that they can actually quit social media all together if they need to, to give them something to talk about and to give Carys the gift of realising she doesn't need him there 24/7.
They live their lives on social media platforms. They earn (and I say that loosely) their money on social media platforms. Then moan about negativity on social media platforms. This all screams GIVE UP ALL SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS. Go live in the real world, earn your money in the real world and stop moaning
 
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I just saw someone’s comment saying we don’t know what she’s like behind closed doors in regards to why she won’t go anywhere without James and it made me think. You know how in the past she’s admitted to being a jealous and possessive girlfriend? She said she always thought James would meet someone else, she would be paranoid about who he was talking to on his phone, obsessed with her looks etc… but she also said she isn’t like that now and I’m not buying it. Sorry Carys, but I’m not. I think that’s (partially) what all this is about. Her body looking the way it does post baby will be making her think those things all over again and I bet when she “can’t” go anywhere without James, she actually can, but she doesn’t want to leave him at home alone or she’s worried what he’ll do if she’s not there. Is he going to text someone, is he going to meet someone, is he going to get his jollies to pornhub over someone who looks like I used to, and so on. I get the overwhelming sensation that she’s insecure again (or it never went away) and now it’s worse because of her post baby body and she wants to keep him close but she’s playing it off as anxiety. No no, I’m not jealous and paranoid, I have anxiety so we need to be together all the time.
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Their lifestyle doesn't help. Even if covid wasn't a thing, they're always at home, no interaction with others or limited. I got anxious about human interaction with just 3 months off on furlough, if you have those underlying issues, I'd imagine they only get worse if you don't live your life. Before, they travelled, went out, met friends but as soon as they moved into that house...it was all house based.

Also, I also don't agree with the James narrative. He clearly adores her, is enabling maybe not forcing her out of her comfort zone, perhaps...but I think the issue is all her....and that she also likes a little of the dramatics.
 
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Their lifestyle doesn't help. Even if covid wasn't a thing, they're always at home, no interaction with others or limited. I got anxious about human interaction with just 3 months off on furlough, if you have those underlying issues, I'd imagine they only get worse if you don't live your life. Before, they travelled, went out, met friends but as soon as they moved into that house...it was all house based.

Also, I also don't agree with the James narrative. He clearly adores her, is enabling maybe not forcing her out of her comfort zone, perhaps...but I think the issue is all her....and that she also likes a little of the dramatics.
Agree. I think it’s all her too, I think it always was.

The difference in Carys over a small space of time is shocking
 

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I used to think James was a controlling freak, but I’m starting to think he just goes along with Carys for an easy life. It’s way easier to just take her to the baby yoga class and wait on her hand and foot, than it is to hear her whining about how she wants to do something but won’t without him. (the interrupting thing still really annoys me, but I digress 🤣)
 
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Their content is so boring too, I am their target audience as someone about to be a first time mum, but I can't bear watching any of the videos they make!
 
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I’ve always loved carys but Jesus, I can’t even watch her videos anymore and had to unfollow her because she’s so BORING
 
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You aren’t off it
If still posting on it
She’s. Just. So. Dumb.
If you needed a social media break so badly for your mental health, you wouldn’t be caring about popping on to remind people where you are (like people are really that invested in your lives hun )🙃

Tomorrow she’ll be posting an annoying boomerang selfie on insta stories chatting about how much she’s needed this non existent social media break but she just wanted to remind everyone again that she’ll be back in a few days time. 🤦🏼‍♀️😂
 
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If you needed a social media break so badly for your mental health, you wouldn’t be caring about popping on to remind people where you are (like people are really that invested in your lives hun )🙃

Tomorrow she’ll be posting an annoying boomerang selfie on insta stories chatting about how much she’s needed this non existent social media break but she just wanted to remind everyone again that she’ll be back in a few days time. 🤦🏼‍♀️😂
She’s probably sat scrolling through her messages of people checking up on her cus she needs that reassurance from ‘fans’ 🙄
 
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She’s probably sat scrolling through her messages of people checking up on her cus she needs that assurance from ‘fans’ 🙄
I don’t even think she’s having a social media break. Amber will be upstairs sleeping and Carys will be sat downstairs scrolling through Instagram. It’s just another influencer tick box exercise, “every few months take a social media break”.

Carys will be scared someone steals her title of Instagrams most famous body positivity influencer in the space of 24 hours since she was last on 🙃
 
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