James and Carys #11 baby’s not perfect they won’t admit, Carys is ashamed of her tits.

[plwcm]

I think we can all agree hes obviously a great dad, hes taken to his new role with such ease, compared to Carys she is so dependent on James, and he enables her. It just adds to her anxieties, she needs to take those small steps and take Amber on her own to classes, or for a walk on her own or her fears will only multiply.

I don't get how exactly he enables her. There have been numerous times in vlogs where she says James has went to the gym or went out, she could easily go out for a walk with amber by herself. It is more a Carys problem in my eyes rather than James controlling her and not letting her do anything by herself. Probably going to build a home gym so James doesn't have to go out to the gym and rush back to open the calpol for Carys, she can just bring it out to him

 

[klady]

Tell Tattlers thank you, Carys! Now, take our advice and go book an appointment with your health professional. After you’ve seen the doctor, don’t forget to post a thank you to Tattlers, for the well needed advice. You’re supporting Amber’s back in your latest post. Do the same for her little head until her neck muscles are stronger. And, stop jarring her around. She’s a baby not a teddy bear. You’re welcome

 

[faycooper89]

I’m Glad she’s taken amber to baby yoga…. But… why did need James to go, and drive? At over 3 months old it’s concerning that Carys still hasn’t taken her out herself.

I thought exactly the same! It’s actually really worrying! God I had an emergency c section & I drove myself at less than 5 weeks to meet a friend for coffee! & there’s Carys who can’t seem to function without James! Scary!

 

[heartonosey]

Unpopular opinion But bloody hell he is the father, does that not mean anything is he not allowed to share and experience these moments with his first born child ?? I really don’t get what all the fuss is, the poor guy would be getting slated if he didn’t show an interest in his baby, he can’t win either way

It’s not about him being the father he seems a good dad and is involved . It’s about Carys not taking the baby anywhere by herself, and she needs to. James has taken her on walks alone, Carys hasn’t been anywhere by herself with Amber and a mum and baby yoga was the perfect opportunity to do this. Nobody has questioned that he’s the dad and shouldn’t be there it’s about Carys having some time outside of house with her baby

 

[Twunt]

I don't get how exactly he enables her. There have been numerous times in vlogs where she says James has went to the gym or went out, she could easily go out for a walk with amber by herself. It is more a Carys problem in my eyes rather than James controlling her and not letting her do anything by herself. Probably going to build a home gym so James doesn't have to go out to the gym and rush back to open the calpol for Carys, she can just bring it out to him

he drove her to baby yoga, how is that not enabling her? he just needed to give her a bit of tough love and make her drive herself. i don't think hes controlling her at all.

 

[plwcm]

he drove her to baby yoga, how is that not enabling her? he just needed to give her a bit of tough love and make her drive herself. i don't think hes controlling her at all.

I guess but we don't know what she's like behind closed doors, could be the type of person to say well I won't go unless you take me (my sister was this type of person in her previous relationship) hopefully one day Carys can drive herself places but I personally thinks she plays up on her anxiety if and when she needs to

 

[Twunt]

I guess but we don't know what she's like behind closed doors, could be the type of person to say well I won't go unless you take me (my sister was this type of person in her previous relationship) hopefully one day Carys can drive herself places but I personally thinks she plays up on her anxiety if and when she needs to

100% agree, i dont think shes half as innocent as she makes out!

 

[Reflected view]

I don't get how exactly he enables her. There have been numerous times in vlogs where she says James has went to the gym or went out, she could easily go out for a walk with amber by herself. It is more a Carys problem in my eyes rather than James controlling her and not letting her do anything by herself. Probably going to build a home gym so James doesn't have to go out to the gym and rush back to open the calpol for Carys, she can just bring it out to him

Thank god someone else on the same wavelength as myself

 

[Missclassy19]

Looool the yoga classes n classes w babies n mums was soemthing I mentioned a few days ago you’re bloody welcome. Finally she’s doing something social

 

[K A Y L E I G H]

I’m Glad she’s taken amber to baby yoga…. But… why did need James to go, and drive? At over 3 months old it’s concerning that Carys still hasn’t taken her out herself.

He probably even waited in the car park for her till they were finished

 

[heartonosey]

He probably even waited in the car park for her till they were finished

Yes he will of done. Completely unnecessary

 

[K A Y L E I G H]

And yes carys YOUR body is the least interesting thing about YOU so stop showing us your lumps and bumps and jiggling your tits about, don’t wanna see it thanksss

 

[klady]

Oh no…she’ll do that nonstop now

 

[andersanna]

James honestly I actually like him now he seems such a good dad and just say natural with amber .. it’s clear as day carys is just resentful unfortunately

 

[Amelia1234]

I’ve been watching Cary’s old videos on her busybee channel and I can’t get over how different she seems! You’d swear it was a different person

 

[Fairway18]

I’ve been watching Cary’s old videos on her busybee channel and I can’t get over how different she seems! You’d swear it was a different person

Ive done this too.

Carys 3+ years ago had her head screwed on, is normal and a really nice girl. Cared about her appearances and wasn’t fake.

Nowadays she fake, so so SO immature, over the top fake, with the elaborateness etc.

Most people are immature then mature, she’s the opposite. So baffling.

Even the tone of her voice has changed completely, let alone personally, life outlook, body etc etc.

 

[Wingingmotherhood]

James was annoying in pregnancy and immediately after Amber was born, but there’s definitely been a switch and I don’t mind him as much now. She’s really annoying, all the fake body positivity stuff and making out Amber is advanced is just boring.

 

[BeyoncéCarter-Knowles]

I just saw someone’s comment saying we don’t know what she’s like behind closed doors in regards to why she won’t go anywhere without James and it made me think. You know how in the past she’s admitted to being a jealous and possessive girlfriend? She said she always thought James would meet someone else, she would be paranoid about who he was talking to on his phone, obsessed with her looks etc… but she also said she isn’t like that now and I’m not buying it. Sorry Carys, but I’m not. I think that’s (partially) what all this is about. Her body looking the way it does post baby will be making her think those things all over again and I bet when she “can’t” go anywhere without James, she actually can, but she doesn’t want to leave him at home alone or she’s worried what he’ll do if she’s not there. Is he going to text someone, is he going to meet someone, is he going to get his jollies to pornhub over someone who looks like I used to, and so on. I get the overwhelming sensation that she’s insecure again (or it never went away) and now it’s worse because of her post baby body and she wants to keep him close but she’s playing it off as anxiety. No no, I’m not jealous and paranoid, I have anxiety so we need to be together all the time.
Feel me?

 

[Dutchie123]

she also mentioned mum life and how she calls everything mum something.

James was annoying in pregnancy and immediately after Amber was born, but there’s definitely been a switch and I don’t mind him as much now. She’s really annoying, all the fake body positivity stuff and making out Amber is advanced is just boring.

Yeah James seems like such a sweet and devoted dad! I think Carys is struggling a lot with her body image and being a first time mum. I gave birth to twins 3 weeks ago and also struggle being a mum - love them to death and would do anything for them but it is exhausting, which is okay to admit - I would appreciate Carys a lot more if she was honest.

 

[Booxhoo]

they are so desperate for a perfect baby. James even tried to make out in the mcdonalds chat with us that amber doesn't fart

Loool please tell me what he said