Sophie if you're listening or reading - please see our advice as heartfelt & sincere. We Tattlers do not see your husband's behaviour towards you or Freddie as normal or acceptable. We are not trolls but people who have lived lives where we recognise poor behaviour & have even experienced it ourselves. Please take some time to quietly contemplate if this really is the life for you. There is something very wrong here, your husband is publicly putting you down. You are worth more than this. You might think we are ugly, jealous, trolling tit stirrers, but at our very essence are people who have possibly in some way walked in the foot steps you are walking now. There are other paths for you & your 2 sons.