No shit, I know nothing of fashion
No shit, I know nothing of fashion@Pocahontas you’re so basic and yesterday
as well as a debt management plan with step change I’ve got a billy basic bank account called Monzo and what’s great about it is you can split your money into pots and then never look at the bills pot or rent pot again so all I know about is the little bit of ‘joy’ money I can fritter and I still get that silly hit of wasting a few pounds a month on shiteReally appreciate your advice dear fraus, this is exactly what my other half does and he is slightly obsessive with it but he's now debt free so as you said it clearly works! I'm a PhD student at the moment and whilst I get a stipend it isn't a proper job wage so I think in the past I'd rather not have it all laid out logically! Bury my head in the sand so to speak
It's a bit of a cycle whereby the debt exacerbates my anxiety and to make myself feel better I spend on food/drink/unnecessary luxuries, terrible spiral. And lockdown 100% made it worse!
I believe it is called a 'fanny pack' in Yankee, which is even fannier.No shit, I know nothing of fashionI use a bumbag as my day to day receptacle for carrying things in. Although, Jack would call it a ‘fanny bag’ these days.
Fanny pack is just evoking images of her packing her unruly labia into three pairs of pantsI believe it is called a 'fanny pack' in Yankee, which is even fannier.
Agreed! I'd add that more needs to be done to address the cause of obesity. Its not as simple as greed or laziness. Theres often an emotional connection, an unhappiness. Opposite ends of the scale, but overeating & obesity is as much a concern and disorded eating as undereating & thinness imo. Diets are pushed out there, and long term dont work, people will still have the disordered eating and feelings around food.
By her own account, JMs fanny is certainly packing.Fanny pack is just evoking images of her packing her unruly labia into three pairs of pants
Amazing!! HOOTING.I wanted to add that bag too but can't remember what it's called. I've done a shitty job of the denim shirt, im not happy with it but if someone can refresh my memory about the bag, I'll add it and take away the shirt!View attachment 235687
Thank you @Icing _on_ the_cake and @chocolate choux for these helpful suggestions. I think I might take a look and might try a book first, but I might do some serious indepth research and find a counselling service that might suit me better.I've been able to access non-CBT therapy through a charity and now through a counselling service that offers open ended long term reduced fee sessions. It can take a bit of hunting about but often there is something out there.
I've struggled with my weight since my teenage years. I put a lot of weight on when I was at uni and managed to lose it all the year following my graduation. I was largely able to maintain this for most of my twenties. Then I was put on sertraline to manage my anxiety problems and it made me so hungry. I put on 2 thirds of what I had lost in under a year. I felt awful, I wasn't fitting into my clothes, I hated photos, I got comments from my parents. I came off the sertraline and worked really hard to get it off. Got nearly there, injured my foot, couldn't exercise, put it all on again. Started to lose it again, lost half of it and then bam, pandemic, stuck at home. Even though I'm eating the same or less than before pandemic, and cycling, swimming, using indoor equipment, it's just not going. I feel so massively frustrated. I don't like eating in front of people because I'd had people make comments 'that's why you're fat' when a thin girl who eats a whole pizza and then some doesn't get any flack. Just finished watching the Gilmore Girls and if you sized up Lorelai and Rory their diet wouldn't be seen in the same light.
Fixed it for youJack Monroe #70 PrivateEyeaye
It’s amazing that you’re accusing me of being triggered, when you’re offended by me simply standing up for someone being attacked for their appearance.Do you hate fat people? I am sick of reading skewed & triggered opinions which are outright offensive.
Vendetta against slim women lol. Ffs.
Monzo is amazing, your statement is in real time so you always 100% know where you stand, it doesn’t get to Monday and the weekend hits, or a few online orders process, and you’re like wtf happened. Also groups your expenditure into categories so u can better understand where it all goes, also you can do roundups etc etc just a fab bank!!as well as a debt management plan with step change I’ve got a billy basic bank account called Monzo and what’s great about it is you can split your money into pots and then never look at the bills pot or rent pot again so all I know about is the little bit of ‘joy’ money I can fritter and I still get that silly hit of wasting a few pounds a month on shite
Who hates slim women? You have repeatedly got stuck on this issue. It is clearly a sore point for you and thats fine.It’s amazing that you’re accusing me of being triggered, when you’re offended by me simply standing up for someone being attacked for their appearance.
There is so much hatred against slim women that people feel justified in their self-righteous attacks and don’t even see it as wrong.
I have chuckled all day whilst working, with Jimmy Nail just popping in my head saying ‘she’s lying’’That’s one of my funniest moments on these threads - I was HOOTING at the confusion! I still can’t see either Jimmy Djokovic or Novak Nail without laughing
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