What surprises me, is both on the bird site, and on here, more so here because of the detail and number of posts, people who only interact because of their disapproval of someone else's actions, are genuinely thoughtful and nice to each other. It doesn't always happen on
but there's lots of examples of it.
We're all anonymous so there's no reason to be nice, or whatever, to anyone else. The people sharing difficulties and the people supporting do so purely because that's their genuine reaction. There's a few people here that if I stopped posting, I'd come back occasionally to name search how they are doing in the hope they'd posted an update. That must be because I think you're genuinely valuable people having a tough time in one way or another.
I just think it's rather bizarre that she's built a community of strangers, but people who like each other. Even when people turn up who think very differently, they are responded to politely and kindly. Must really grate her. Everyone who dislikes my actions gets on.