TheDragonWithAFlagon
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I used to spend a shitload on makeup until I couldn't afford to anymore, as Mr D wasn't working.
What I missed about it wasn't really the makeup, it was the going to counters in airconditioned, clean and bright stores, looking through all the pretty packaging, attention from the sales staff, the way that some would rummage in the cupboards to give me as many free samples as possible even after I'd said I couldn't afford anything more than the one cheap thing I'd already chosen, then going home with my little bags of a few pretty things. Everything in those airconditioned departments was clean and shiny and smelled nice, so it was the complete antithesis of my childhood.
I did look at buying things online, but it just wasn't the same, just as it isn't post Covid when if you're lucky, there's a heap of battered boxes under CCTV and a security guard where there used to be all those immaculate, smiling sales staff - and was exactly how cosmetics companies get to charge so much. It was essentially, choosing your own present with somebody there making sure that you had the best present.
Having loads of things, getting every colour or item in a range just because you want it all isn't the same - the dopamine hit diminishes with every single item you get above about 3 different things.
Which is why we're not skint even though we've had way, way less than she's ever had.
What I missed about it wasn't really the makeup, it was the going to counters in airconditioned, clean and bright stores, looking through all the pretty packaging, attention from the sales staff, the way that some would rummage in the cupboards to give me as many free samples as possible even after I'd said I couldn't afford anything more than the one cheap thing I'd already chosen, then going home with my little bags of a few pretty things. Everything in those airconditioned departments was clean and shiny and smelled nice, so it was the complete antithesis of my childhood.
I did look at buying things online, but it just wasn't the same, just as it isn't post Covid when if you're lucky, there's a heap of battered boxes under CCTV and a security guard where there used to be all those immaculate, smiling sales staff - and was exactly how cosmetics companies get to charge so much. It was essentially, choosing your own present with somebody there making sure that you had the best present.
Having loads of things, getting every colour or item in a range just because you want it all isn't the same - the dopamine hit diminishes with every single item you get above about 3 different things.
Which is why we're not skint even though we've had way, way less than she's ever had.