I was looking for the photo I mentioned in my post and found this instead - Jack ranting about people pretending to be poor!
Poverty only looks at its own feet, in too-tight shoes that let in the rain, and I speak from bitter, horrible experience. I lived in poverty for around two years with an infant son, moving from a flat to a smaller, mouldy flat to a friend’s sofa to a mattress on the floor
www.independent.co.uk
She even quotes "Common People"
This article
If true, still makes me so sad to think she chose to inflict a large amount of misery on her child. Again,
if true, has she ever satisfactorily explained why she did not ask her parents or son's father for help?
It is hardly as if she lived on a different land mass - she was relatively near them. Fair enough she put herself through this, but a child? I get MH problems mean you can make unwise decisions, but I then don't get why she is living off this desparately sad period of time. And therefore making her son relive it.
No new reflections here I know, but it hits me every time that
if true she had ways and means of not selling her son's shoes and making him cold and wet.
*entirely unfounded theory alert* I said before I wondered if she was pissed off with Daddy for not stepping in and saving her job (that she resigned from) and this was a case of 'look what you did'.