If they're on a discussion board posting their opinions that is not trolling.Petty? Crack on? Wouldn’t it be wonderful if the handful of trolls did exactly that.
Notice I used my real name. Nothing to hide over here.
Well I can't imagine they're people from here as nobody on here really cares, hence the minimal replies in comparison to other threads. You only start ranting on about things that have been posted on hereIf they are in my dm’s all the time - that’s trolling.
You shouldn’t have to explain yourself infertility is such a dark lonely thing to go through. I’ve been there. So what if Jen enjoys a drink sometimes! Wishing you the best of luck Jen & Al with your IVF.I don't drink frequently. But I guess that’s dependent on your definition of frequent? How many nights a month is frequent for you? I’ve hardly been doing any stories so the last time you saw me drink on social would have been a while ago.
Since my 40th I’ve been on a long term fitness program with a specialist PT and the alcohol I consume is all measured and monitored as part of the fitness program. I could probably provide an overview for you from the app.
I have had long periods of time with no alcohol. I’ve been pregnant 7 times in 4 and a half years and have never had a drop of alcohol during those pregnancies. If you think one pregnancy was 9 months and the other 7 were 3 months each that equates to 30 months! We’ve also been told by numerous specialists that because of our specific, very individual and complicated case that we should allow ourselves to relax and enjoy a few drinks when we want to.
I’d happily give up alcohol for the rest of my life. I enjoy it but I don’t need it. I have first hand experience of people I love and alcoholism so it’s something I take very seriously.
We are under constant care at the moment and as soon as our doctor or nurse tells me to go on a zero alcohol diet I will of course.
I appreciate the message being written in a respectful manner and honestly welcome any more questions you have.
When others have asked questions they tended to get a passive aggressive response from jen, doing the whole nicey nice replying.I dont know what it is, but I just cant take to them! I feel so much sympathy because of their miscarriages, I wish so badly they could have another baby, but I just have so many questions about them. And before anyone says, why don't you just ask them, they seem like the type of people who dont take criticism well. Seen as they do a post or story about any negativity they get.
There are two things I really want to know from them.
Number one, they have said they cant adopt because they dont have a spare room, so if they did have another baby, where would the baby sleep? Wouldn't that make the house crowded. Correct me if I've got any of this wrong.
And secondly, why do they do so many stories on a day out. I get that people want to share their memories and happy timee but they upload talky stories, videos of the kids, and general pictures one after the other. And I wonder how they can be in that moment with their families if they're constantly doing stories and uploading.
please dont come at me and call me a troll because I have said nothing offensive, I just want to put my questions out there and see if anyone else feels the same.
He is incredibly arrogant - for sureI find him extremely arrogant and I feel like if you're not in his circle he wouldn't even give you a second glance
He is the man you never want your daughter to meet! He is leery as hell; creeps on women like a dememted sex starved animal. He disgusts me. Last week he actually storied his leery perving on a young waitress. The poor woman/girl; ALL women need to be protected against his predatory behaviour. He makes me boak.He is incredibly arrogant - for sure
I dont know what it is, but I just cant take to them! I feel so much sympathy because of their miscarriages, I wish so badly they could have another baby, but I just have so many questions about them. And before anyone says, why don't you just ask them, they seem like the type of people who dont take criticism well. Seen as they do a post or story about any negativity they get.
There are two things I really want to know from them.
Number one, they have said they cant adopt because they dont have a spare room, so if they did have another baby, where would the baby sleep? Wouldn't that make the house crowded. Correct me if I've got any of this wrong.
And secondly, why do they do so many stories on a day out. I get that people want to share their memories and happy timee but they upload talky stories, videos of the kids, and general pictures one after the other. And I wonder how they can be in that moment with their families if they're constantly doing stories and uploading.
please dont come at me and call me a troll because I have said nothing offensive, I just want to put my questions out there and see if anyone else feels the same.
See this is what happened on the last thread. A nicey nice response.Thanks for the respectful message. I do take valid criticism well and am always open to questions and DM’s. I’m not going to accuse you of trolling and I doubt any of the users of this site ever would!
If we were ever lucky enough to have another baby then the baby would sleep in our room until he/she was old enough to share with their sibling. We aren’t fortunate enough for our children to have a room each but that’s not uncommon. We also have friends who’s children share a bedroom even though they don’t need to - just through choice and they love it.
The second question I’m surprised by as we don’t tend to story much on a day out. I’m very much about being in the moment. But I also like to create photo books and videos of the children to remember their childhood. Stories are sporadic and infrequent compared to other accounts unless we are on a day out to promote something for work. I don’t know if you know but It’s The Ferguson’s is part of Dadsnet and Dadsnet is a full time job for both of us. Stories might also be uploaded by Louis (who is studying media GCSE and therefore practising different skills) or they might be uploaded on a different time frame eg when Al is working, when Ted is sleeping, at the end of the day.
Happy to answer any other questions. I don’t tend to come on here unless someone sends me a screenshot and it’s written respectfully, but you can always dm.
Hope you’re having a great summer
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