Oh thank you so much for this! Hopefully I’ll get at least a start on it. Be nice to know someone else who’s been there done that! Thank youHave a look at infertilitysucksni. She's from N.I and done surrogacy with a girl from England. Her page might have some info. There's also a Facebook group called missing pieces for surrogacy. Good luck with your journey, sending you loads of love
She'd said before that as she's has a miscarriage previously she wants to stay til after the first trimester if she is pregnant. Now I'm not sure what if any preventative measures can be taken besides the progesterone but sure if it reassures her being there that's a help. I'd find it fierce lonely & boring.And how much longer is she staying out there for? I don’t understand the need for her to still be there when the transfer is done
I haven't seen her say when she's testing. But with my 5 day transfers I only got my positive on 8 days after Transfer. So she's 3 days behind a 5 day transfer. Alot of people try not test too early so that they get an accurate result when they do. But I know alot of people can't hold back and test early lol
So did you get negatives before day 8? I'm a divil for testing early, course never postive
(well not the last few anyways).Sorry I kinda worded that wrong. I didn't test before day 8. But on day 8 it was a faint enough line so anything before that likely wouldn't be clear enough. I held off longer for past transfers but only tested day 8 on that transfer cos I bled and assumed I was out.So did you get negatives before day 8? I'm a divil for testing early, course never postive
Yes it’d be the boredom and loneliness that would get me - there really is no place like home. And you’re right, there is v little any clinic can do besides amend progesterone as far as I’m aware. But if it makes her happy and reassures her that’s all that matters. Can’t be cheap though
Sadly agreeing with everything here. I've also unfollowed as I didn't want to watch any more. There's a strong undercurrent of anger there that I was feeling uncomfortable looking at. I really wouldn't be surprised if I see her picture on the news in a few
I unfollowed her too because she was making me a little uncomfortable but this seems like a leap!! I'm sure she'll just take out another loan and go back to Penny. I do think she needs to be careful though as she keeps talking about "her" eggs, as if it makes the pregnancy better. If she goes back to embryo adoption she should work on this with a therapist before hand.
This! It's a harsh truth. The system is there to help children who are struggling and in need of a home, not someone who wants a child so badly they'll "even" do fostering.
I do hope that this cycle has worked for her. But I could see her traveling abroad somewhere with a half baked plan to adopt from an orphanage and getting taken advantage of, or unwittingly caught up in something. She was telling all of Instagram on a live that she'd started contacting orphanages abroad for a kid, trying to do a run around of the HSE. I don't think she realises the serious trouble she could get herself into.
It's a big step to move onto donor eggs. Much wiser to get your head around the idea of it before a transfer and all the pregnancy hormones kick in. If Ollie tries donor eggs again I hope she see it as a positive opportunity
Absolutely especially as blood clotting disorders are linked to miscarriage. My friend had recurrent miscarriages and her IVF Dr was the one who diagnosed her blood clotting disorder. Potentially saved her life.
Well she will & does put herself first when it comes to getting her nails done the whole time. She just misses/leaves out all the actual important things. She's saying that the bruising is from something called Claxine but I really think she must be injecting Clexane. Maybe Claxine is the Greek version?
It's clexane she's just saying it wrong