Ella wasnt coming to his place even pre-Bianca and Elsie only because she thought it would bring him back. They dont even want to see him in the park, only at home. It wouldnt make any difference if BW wasnt living with him (perhaps they actually have arrangements for her to stay somewhere else if the kids would be around), except that he would be alone while going through hell
You’re right, Ella wasn’t seeing him pre-Bianca, but rather than give her time to come round, he announced he was in a new relationship whilst on another continent, and then moved Bianca into his home upon his return.
Yes, the situation was bad to begin with, but he has made it worse. And I think at this point, it may be beyond repair.
Regardless of all that, it is looking likely that the girls may be removed from Alice’s care as that video she posted was really concerning. If that happens, then yes, Bianca would absolutely need to move out to allow him to rebuild his relationship with his girls.
other than going through the lawyers (which he does plenty according to Alice) what do you expect him to do bear in mind that the kids apparently dont want to meet him without their mom while he has lawsuits ongoing against her being violent/abusive (it seems like it). Alice could claim all sort of shit if he turns up and takes them and then he might never see them again.
He could wear a body cam. He could take someone with him. He could do a lot more than what he has done so far. He doesn’t want to go to the house...that’s fine. Is it worth not seeing your children for 8 months? I guess Ioan thinks it is.