Loan could take the girls home and have family support nearby that would allow him to work… but I don’t know how that’s work if Alice didn’t agree, which I imagine she wouldn’t.What she is doing is character assassination. Her attitude is - if I can't have him I will ruin him so no one else will want him.
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But what happens when he has to work for months on end in a different country? I guess AE gets them but I wouldn't call her functioning.
Ive lived as an expat for many years and raised my children alone without any family support nearby. It’s isolating. They would all be better coming back to the UK.