The pussy comment refered to him not wanting her to use twitter to comment on politically difficult matters (so she thinks him not voicing any of his opinions on twitter means he is a p**y, lol). Alice went completely overboard with this at the time: She was attacking Bernie Sanders supporters, then called everyone who isnt voting Biden complicit. supported Laurence Fox over some of his dumb comments, attacked Meghan Markle for not speaking up on some racial issue, but then attacked Leonard Franklin and Lesley-Ann Brandt (Mazikeen from Lucifer) after they demanded Joe Biden to speak up on something related to that. this felt the worse of all to me because everyone then connected all dots to her previous incidents that year and started to openly attack Ioan as well, I certainly remember at least Brandt liking tweets where people asked him to take actions against his wife or questioning how he can be married to somebody like this, which does get into a dangerous direction if people from the industry appear to think like this.
This is why I'm not sure that he was that upset about her posting pictures of him, but more about this.
*I may mix up or misremember some stuff, because there was SO MUCH.
She mentioned it various times, here a example (just search on twitter from:aliceevansgruff bullied and you will find more)
also it happened to her eldest too apparently
As for her dad, also all on her twitter, mentioned it many times (those are just some examples). Basically she says that the step mom just made him cut off contact from his kids, but it doesnt feel like the full story
she keeps talking about how he abandoned all his three kids but if you dig her tweets it seems like he only really cut off her
here she is asking her brother to redirect something to their dad for example
also this
She also keeps claiming that he never met her kids,like here
well, apparently not
(also note how Ella was born in 2009, her and Ioan's wedding was in 2007, and "two years after mom died" was 2001)
So yeah, really, I really really want to believe her a lot of stuff, but just like with her divorce she has huge issues to keep the story straight, which makes me question here everything.
This story is exactly why I fear that Ioan will have a hard time to maintain a healthy relationship with his kids, especially as soon as he has a girlfriend.