Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #94 Covid negative, but positively desperate for attention

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I've said it before and I'll say it again - most people don't get my sense of humour.
So I will spell it out instead of trying to be dry/ironic.

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NO, HIS LIFE HAS NOT BEEN LITTERED WITH TRAGEDIES.
FFS.
I think @HouseofTea was meaning not to talk about YouKnowWho, rather than commenting on how you wrote the connect of your post. Less about your sense of humour and more about not discussing minions.

PS I'm quite partial to your ironic SOH.
 
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Let's have way less talk of the moustachioed prick on this thread please. As others have said, AE's post was obviously an attempt to put him back in the limelight here since he's not even on Instagram so wouldn't see her 'beautiful tribute'. Leave him to rot in his sad wee doxxing hole so we don't get shut down again.
 
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Ehhh gotta say something that no doubt will earn me angry emojis. It goes without saying that I hope the flare up resolves fast, however….not sure I believe the “can’t be bothered with social media most of the time” comment on her IG story. Girlfriend typically posts frequently and engages a lot. Just saying.
Also - interesting timing after Welp had questioned the lack of activity.
I'm pretty sure social media would of been the last thing Bianca would be thinking about whilst relapsing.

I've said it before and I'll say it again - most people don't get my sense of humour.
So I will spell it out instead of trying to be dry/ironic.

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NO, HIS LIFE HAS NOT BEEN LITTERED WITH TRAGEDIES.
FFS.
Poor bugger drew the short straw with sister Alice though 😂
 
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I was hoping Bianca would have a more manageable form of relapsing-remitting MS as far as infrequency of bad flare-ups, like Jack Osbourne and Jamie-Lynn Sigler of The Sopranos, who was diagnosed at 20 and has had it now for 20 years. She probably had it at 18. She couldn't move her legs, a real heaviness and other things. She was put in the hospital and diagnosed with Lyme Disease. And she was fine for a couple of years until 20, when she was experiencing tingling in her legs, etc. She went to the emergency room, and that's when they diagnosed her with MS. She hid it for 15 years because of her career. She's 40 now, a mom of two kids and a supportive husband.

It seems like ever since Bianca left Australia she's having these flare-ups. I hope they get it under control. It made me very sad to see she had another bad episode for ten days.
Sadly every single person with MS is different. From symptoms to frequency of relapses to prognosis. No two people are alike.
 
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Ooh, I got a thread title! Thank you thank you thank you. I shall celebrate with 3 sharp ones with ny cornflakes 🍹🍹🍹
 
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I think @HouseofTea was meaning not to talk about YouKnowWho, rather than commenting on how you wrote the connect of your post. Less about your sense of humour and more about not discussing minions.

PS I'm quite partial to your ironic SOH.
Exactly that, not the content, humourless or otherwise, but bit players @SusanC
 
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Ehhh gotta say something that no doubt will earn me angry emojis. It goes without saying that I hope the flare up resolves fast, however….not sure I believe the “can’t be bothered with social media most of the time” comment on her IG story. Girlfriend typically posts frequently and engages a lot. Just saying.
Also - interesting timing after Welp had questioned the lack of activity.
I'm not sure if occasional stories (more when on holiday, but even that was modest), a post every 2-3 weeks and then commenting on some of them is a lot. For a childless 29 year old, especially one that is neither a serious actor nor a nobody so in exactly the range where you would try to be a spammy influencer, it's all pretty modest LOL.
 
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I'm not sure if occasional stories (more when on holiday, but even that was modest), a post every 2-3 weeks and then commenting on some of them is a lot. For a childless 29 year old, especially one that is neither a serious actor nor a nobody so in exactly the range where you would try to be a spammy influencer, it's all pretty modest LOL.
"Spammy influencer" 😂 I like that.
 
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It's 3am in Cymru, I've had a little gwin gwyn, and I feel the need to comment.

I barely post on social media as:
(a) I can't be fucked with the bother
(b) I detest the look of myself so the whole 'selfie' thing is repulsive
(c) My life is not that interesting

That said, if your career is anything to do with entertainment/media, then you need to network like a rabid bastard which means repeated banal posts on whatever social media platform you can get your calloused mitts on. Bianca posts more regularly than me for sure, but WAY less regularly than your typical actor. This lass has had her new fledgling film publicised (thanks in part to Tattle), and so posting an extremely subtle update with direct relation to the content of said film is pretty much essential at this stage of production. If she was posting multiple times daily, then I'd get it, but give the gal a break.

Ioan's career has been pretty exceptional given that he doesn't 'do' the socials. It's amusing that some people don't realise that he's likely barely scraping even at the moment thanks to expensive lawyers, household bills, crazy STBX etc, so he really should be gadding about on Insta to try and raise his profile. Better this way than raise money for his kids via salacious clickbait in 'Take A Break' magazine.

As for the wee girls: I was a young un once, and I also taught for 20 years. It gives me a right ol' chuckle to read the 'the girls must be thinking <insert adult's fabricated idea of children's thought process here> about I and B's Insta posts'. Those girls are likely WAAAy more bothered with Alice 'Edie' Evans' social vomit than they are with the calmly-curated IoBee output.

As for the 'how could Ioan leave those beautiful girls yada yada yada' - as others with greater legal knowledge have pointed out, he has no option. But also, what's the alternative? He stays and tries to force access, which would exacerbate Alice's emotions and result in an extremely stressful for the kids? That is the absolute worst thing he could do. We have no idea how much contact he has, but it's highly likely he's calling them via their own mobile phones/their school/Gloria etc. Alice lies - fact - so let's stop this 'he's had no contact with those precious girls' shite.

Finally, a snippet into my own personal clusterfuck: My OH has a kid. She was about 3 when we met, and his ex went NUTS and did everything in her power to separate us, which mostly consisted of brainwashing the poor kid into stealing our things, recording ur conversations etc. We tried everything to manage this situation: family therapy, pandering to crazy ex, pandering to child etc. Nothing worked. In the end, my OH was becoming a shadow of himself, the kid was developing controlling personality traits, and everything was going to tit. So, he backed off. Said 'enough is enough'. He had a very painful year with no contact at all with his kid (with the full support of a therapist), but it worked. Crazy ex realised she didn't control the situation, so did the kid, and this kid is now 15 and not only barely remembers those years but now has a great relationship with pops. Sadly, I'm still out of the picture (by choice - I don't want to rock the boat at all, and she'll be old enough to make her own decisions soon so), but the main thing is that it was the right thing to do to cut ties when he did. He wishes he'd done it sooner now in fact.

I did say in my single previous post that my softening towards AE would be short-lived did I not. Soz.

*ETA*

RE: the 'Edie' reference (just in case I was being too obscure): look up the amazing 'Grey Gardens' documentary. I haven't decided whether AE is modelling herself on Big or Little Edie, or maybe crowbarring into a Medium Edie.

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Diolch for this, friend. So informative and well-put. Also, I do hope you can have that precious opportunity to rebuild a strong, loving relationship with your OH’s young’un someday soon. I have no experience with this sort of situation—let alone anything involving children—but I have faith! You seem like someone she could learn so, so much from. Kind thoughts coming your way.

Also, I didn’t know how to say this for a while but just thought I’d share that I have a TREMENDOUS amount of respect to friends in here who have or are raising children—their own by biology or adopted or cared for at relatives’ requests, etc.

As I might have said before, my BPD is mostly under control BUT I still struggle deeply in ways that would make it incredibly more challenging than usual to raise children. (That’s not at ALL to say there are no good parents with BPD; they just need to work a lot harder to control their impulses/behaviors to avoid shedding any trauma or bad examples on their kids.) I realized a while ago that I personally would unintentionally destroy my child if given the responsibility of caring for them, I can barely care for myself, Jesus Christ. So I sort of sadly decided not to go that route.

I’ve been reading everyone’s interesting experiences with their children throughout our time together thus far—from pregnancy to new little bubbies to five-year-olds to preteens to teenagers and @M33L4 ’s mimsy-blessed young’uns—and I’m just astounded by y’all’s patience, compassion, protectiveness, and parental intelligence. It’s like I’m living the life of a parent vicariously through everyone else. Thank you for that, and know I wish your lil/big ones nothing but the brightest of futures and the most fulfilling lives, alongside the good that I wish for y’all, too. It has been a real treat reading these experiences.
 
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Let's have way less talk of the moustachioed prick on this thread please. As others have said, AE's post was obviously an attempt to put him back in the limelight here since he's not even on Instagram so wouldn't see her 'beautiful tribute'. Leave him to rot in his sad wee doxxing hole so we don't get shut down again.
Alice has indicated they will use every means available to shut down this thread. She wants screenshots of what is discussed here, she wants proof we are discussing taboo subjects. Basically she is trying to set us up. So sorry, Alice, in this case we are the smartest people in the room. 🙄
 
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Alice has indicated they will use every means available to shut down this thread. She wants screenshots of what is discussed here, she wants proof we are discussing taboo subjects. Basically she is trying to set us up. So sorry, Alice, in this case we are the smartest people in the room. 🙄
Yes, good luck with that, Alice.
You see, we genuinely care about one another here. We don't use one another for attention, likes or leverage. We don't need our egos stroked. We can agree to disagree. We support each other through trials and tribulations, share our stories and histories, check in upon one another. Here, we can be honest. We can be vulnerable, and are not afraid of that vulnerability.
Do you have that, Alice? Do you genuinely have anyone in your life that can offer you that kind of support without strings attached? Do you have anyone in your corner who can give you that kind of love and care?
Pull yourself together. Stop the parental alienation, the self-pity, the drinking and pills. Start taking care of yourself for your children's sake. Take care of your body, your mind and your Self. It's time.
 
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I'm amazed she has found one photo of herself where (a) her eyes are pointing in the same direction and (b) she hasn't put the alien eye filter on
 
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I'm amazed she has found one photo of herself where (a) her eyes are pointing in the same direction and (b) she hasn't put the alien eye filter on
I imagine that someone said for the first one … give me a look of who’s that knocking at the door ?
And the second one they’ve said now imagine it’s the movers 😂
 
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"Spammy influencer" 😂 I like that.
It's the truth :ROFLMAO: . There are so many women in the 20-35 years range whose story feed is so huge that they are little dots LOL

My sister is 35 with two kids under 8 years old and two jobs (and she does an insane amount of garden work that probably accounts for another work LOL) and a husband that isnt home most of the week (no nanny btw) and she posts more than Bianca (way less than Alice did before she got the TRO obviously)

I dont get why people are so triggered by modest posting. I even think Alice right now is okay (for the moment), she tried with her last post to explore new things to post: granted, it didnt gain much interaction because about 95 % of her followers are either dead accounts or there for the drama that is on pause. But just like I think Bianca did right to post some things to normalize them a bit by posting normal things a woman on holiday with her boyfriend would post (and even much less than this), I also think that Alice is doing the right thing to try to get into a new reality (or at least I hope she does) rather than staying off entirely.
 
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As for the wee girls: I was a young un once, and I also taught for 20 years. It gives me a right ol' chuckle to read the 'the girls must be thinking <insert adult's fabricated idea of children's thought process here> about I and B's Insta posts'. Those girls are likely WAAAy more bothered with Alice 'Edie' Evans' social vomit than they are with the calmly-curated IoBee output.

As for the 'how could Ioan leave those beautiful girls yada yada yada' - as others with greater legal knowledge have pointed out, he has no option. But also, what's the alternative? He stays and tries to force access, which would exacerbate Alice's emotions and result in an extremely stressful for the kids? That is the absolute worst thing he could do. We have no idea how much contact he has, but it's highly likely he's calling them via their own mobile phones/their school/Gloria etc. Alice lies - fact - so let's stop this 'he's had no contact with those precious girls' shite.
Well said. I wish we could pin these comments at the start of every thread. I will repeat these comments as and when needed. 😁
 
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This last bit “Bring in one of the men who are courting me” sounds so trashy and slaggy 🤢🤮🤢🤮🥴

And “have the family I always craved and you always had”

Dig at Gill and also she’s not making much of a good job creating this family she’s always craved hey??? Bet she doesn’t even get up to make the girls breakfast half the time!
 
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This last bit “Bring in one of the men who are courting me” sounds so trashy and slaggy 🤢🤮🤢🤮🥴

And “have the family I always craved and you always had”

Dig at Gill and also she’s not making much of a good job creating this family she’s always craved hey??? Bet she doesn’t even get up to make the girls breakfast half the time!
Yes it was around the time she was driving a horse and cart her courting days …. Lord Exec of Disney was the prince 🤴🏽 🤦🏻‍♀️ 😂
 
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This last bit “Bring in one of the men who are courting me” sounds so trashy and slaggy 🤢🤮🤢🤮🥴

And “have the family I always craved and you always had”

Dig at Gill and also she’s not making much of a good job creating this family she’s always craved hey??? Bet she doesn’t even get up to make the girls breakfast half the time!
I’m still stunned by how she truly thinks everyone around her sees her as this well-known, intelligent, sexy, sophisticated lass, lmao “one of the men who are courting me” like she’s not a barrel of radioactive demon jizz. 💀
 
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This last bit “Bring in one of the men who are courting me” sounds so trashy and slaggy 🤢🤮🤢🤮🥴
Clive Skinner is currently the bookies favourite.

I seriously wonder how many slimeballs message her though with rose tinted glasses on how she looked 20 years ago!
 
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