Yes, I know what you mean.
![Confused face :confused: 😕](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f615.png)
My answer might seem strange because it’s a bit old school. Thing is, we treat people with respect not necessarily because they deserve it but because our decency and behaviour is a reflection on who we are, not them. Ioan can’t demand real affection but he can demand decent behaviour and demonstrate that bad behaviour has consequences. It’s something we all have to learn during our childhoods and teen years.
All our relationships have some give and take. Even when we don’t feel like it we make the effort to be pleasant and respectful to family and those close to us. Not an ideal situation, genuine affection is better but at least it’s something and I hope he keeps setting standards there. The kids need that kind of example.