THIS!! I couldn't quite place a finger on what it was, but you are right.
She has a very "hectic" aura / vibe around her.
I cant explain it as well as you did, but I agree 100000%. She just seems like there is always an internal storm brewing. Tbh I would have gone right off her as well if I were her partner, people like that make me very anxious.
Like chill, breathe, FFS just calm TF down.
Combine those darty eyes, hectic energy and addiction to social media, she must have been unpredictable to live with. You never know what will happen next.
I know some posters call BW "toxic positivity", but IMO one thing she radiates is just calmness. Tbh it might just be the aura she puts on for the camera, however I doubt that. Because we only got to experience Alice through videos as well and even in those Alice just seems so agressive and loud and all over the place.
BIB
You're right, some people just seem to thrive on "drama" and chaos, and if they don't have it in their life they set about creating some.
I was brought up in an abusive home (won't bore you with all the details) but I made a choice as an adult to be more like BW, not play "the victim", "why's it always happening to me", or "it's always your fault I act like this, not mine".
These were the models of behaviour I grew up with, and that some of my siblings now exhibit as adults. I chose to follow another path to try and break the cycle of abuse.
It hard work, at times, trying to maintain positivity, and there are times when I recognise that just acceptance of a situation is enough rather than trying to be "positive" which could actually be detrimental, because then it's actually an act of denial.
I am sure BW goes through these times as well, just chooses not to broadcast every little thought and emotion, focusing on the positive to bring her back round of from the edges of despair or depression (if indeed that is where she goes, I may be projecting here).
But, to get back to the point you were making, there are definitely those people whose lives are centred around and who thrive on drama and chaos, and mAlice - in my unsolicited opinion - is one of these.
She enjoys living in the eye of the constant storm of chaos and madness she creates. Of course, it's only the eye of the storm for her, for everyone else it's a nightmare and their nerves become fraught and shattered.
And she enjoys the reputation this gives her as well - wild, "mad", eccentric, too hot to handle. She doesn't see these as a negative, she takes pride in these tags. It's a sign of her emotional and psychological immaturity.
Life must be exhausting in that house. And big E will become increasingly embarrassed by her mother's "antics" in front of her friends as she is rapidly approaching her teens - mAlice won't be the "cool" mum, she'll be the embarrassing mum.
I can't see mAlice changing - she's around the same age as my "mad" sister, and they're like peas in a pod. No way will either of them seem to look for positivity of any sense of normality in their lives. Chaos is way too exciting, reigns supreme and keeps them at the centre of attention.
I adore domestic rats and have owned four. But I can barely tolerate harmless snakes, let alone venomous ones and could NEVER live in Australia for that reason!
I really like mice & rats. 
But I wouldn't be too keen on encountering a large snake, tbh! 
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