I had an affair, I was married to an emotionally abusive man who was also an alcoholic. I met somebody on line and we talked a lot became close. From the first time meeting him to us living together was 5 months, we have now been together for 17 years. He is my rock. If Ioan and Bianca started talking in august, but didn’t have anything physical until after January this year then that isn’t as quick as mine. If they were talking, she had her diagnosis and divorce, he had Alice then I can see them becoming emotionally connected far before anything physical. Sometimes quick relationships work. Especially if you have a lifelong illness, you then see things in a far different light.