I’m not optimistic either
![Crying face :cry: 😢](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f622.png)
. And you are not being harsh with any single thing you’ve said (if the parent’s gender was reversed it would be a no brainer!)
Without getting into it too much, and hence why I’ve become so invested in this situation - I’ve unfortunately had a front-row seat experience of an “Alice” type with my SIL (with the full support of “her” mother, hence why we are no contact given our kids) regarding a situation like this. Thankfully our ex-BIL *finally* (after years & $$$$ spent) ended up with custody of said child after his IG treatment & more (said child has a lot of issues even now) - but holy
tit are we all ready, at all times, for some
bleeping extra shenanigans from “that“ person …
the saddest thing in our situation was that our person was then, & still is, willing to sacrifice their very young child for her own narrative, and it’s frightening. I honestly expected her to unalive herself & said child if it didn’t go her way, but thankfully the Court here didn’t let the child back in her custody after the ruling
edit to add: The personal situation I’m speaking of was actually covered in our National media because of all of the complexities/moving pieces involved (but due being a family court matter - privacy for all named parties was respected) so I’m not talking out my arse Here.
So
duck Alice with her
tit blaming IG for it being so public for those kids, her absolute lack of control of her social media shite is the issue...