I’m sure this has been addressed but what the hell.
She abused him. It’s documented. It’s 2023. No one signs a marriage contract forever and ever and ever any more. Divorce is a thing. I’ve said this before in this thread but feelings don’t justify behaviour.
She has abused him emotionally and physically. It’s documented.
She knew this was coming as he told her YEARS ago he was unhappy and why (also documented).
She called her daughter a tedious bitch on her birthday.
She’s been a “stay at home mom” because he paid for a nanny to watch her ass and take care of the kids. A well as a housekeeper initially.
She stopped working because she’s a shit actress with a shit attitude who casting directors and producers don’t want to work with - there was no agreement for her to stay home with the kids.
She has inundated his mother with hateful emails for years and I am guessing that has not stopped.
She’s publicly and falsely accused him of doing coke, abusing their daughter and hiring $1 million of hookers.
Divorce is not a crime. But posts like yours justifying abuse should be.
I will never ever justify abuse. I wanted to end my life after being lied to for many years by an older man.
I read the texts which IG put to the court. These were all after he had said he wanted to leave and this came as a surprise.
I read about the things IG says AE would say to him. I believe these things have hurt him. I say horrible things to my adult siblings as jokes, as they do to me. One used to always joke about how blind and deaf any husband would have to be. It was always in context of general ribbing. It's lessened as we got older. I don't assume that AE was having any 'banter' with IG though many of her posts do show her at least trying to be funny, though many here don't find it so.
In many countries lying to people isn't a crime, nor is cheating. In some places it is. In Austria the age of consent is 14. In other countries it's not. I just thought I'd say my feelings here which are that I would very much want to know what the truth was about the new relationship, not least to know whether my spouse was sleeping with someone else whilst still doing so with me too.
IG isn't a poor isolated young man who grafts on the building site before he went home to his ungrateful wife. He's a rich actor who, yes, hired a nanny. AE seems to imply that he didn't like being around the family for too long as he gets bored. I haven't seen any of AE's acting, do you think it's not good?
Maybe if things calm down a bit after the divorce is granted then they will start to get more agreements in place about co-parenting. I just wanted to say that I have sympathy for anyone wanting to know the truth in terms of whether their loved ones (which could be family members not just other halves) have lied or are lying. It made me question so much to find out the lies one person had told me and that they'd done it whilst claiming to 'love me' as well as using me for a lot of things.