I think Ioan should regroup, as others say, and concentrate on his disappearing career. He will be in a much better place if he has a stable relationship, has money and a career. The children will learn the whole story in a not to distance future, and Alice will still be the same self-destructive person she is now with no partner, no career and living on the money for child support which will run out once Elsie turns 18, which is only a short 8 yrs away.
I was reading about Samantha Beckingsale, half-sister to Kate and how her coercive and abusive relationship destroyed her budding acting career. She was a much better actress than her sister.
https://www.theguardian.com/society...ok-the-world-in-the-eye-in-remarkable-project
In the meantime, what was this conversation between Tone and one of Alice's supporters about? I checked her timeline and she is definitely a Alicestan. I wasn't sure if he was correcting her grammar or was just a bit narked about the fact she was really interested in Alice, not him. I think for the lack of interaction on his account, he is realising, he is just a way for fans to contact big Sis! No one is interested in his curated songs from Youtube.
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Thought I would include a link where Samatha discusses coercive control and abuse.