Anybody got the login details for the zoom call with MI6 this morning? Wouldn't want to miss it....
I aM a KnObAnybody got the login details for the zoom call with MI6 this morning? Wouldn't want to miss it....
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CBeebies Grant & Phil Mitchell are on the case. This persons crime? Telling Alice to sell the designer shoes to feed her own children.
Just a random thought. I wonder if Ioan had either one, or both of the girls, and had taken them to the cinema. The Abuser knew and went there to cause trouble/stalk.Two films showing - one is a kids film, Pinnochio
I think the cinema thing is a red herring. Welp pointed out that the person on Twitter who said there was an incident in that location was unreliable. And looking at their timeline it can be odd.Just a random thought. I wonder if Ioan had either one, or both of the girls, and had taken them to the cinema. The Abuser knew and went there to cause trouble/stalk.
Whatever happened, Alice’s version is bullshit.Just a random thought. I wonder if Ioan had either one, or both of the girls, and had taken them to the cinema. The Abuser knew and went there to cause trouble/stalk.
Haha! I did think of suggesting she buy a Jack Monroe recipe book but the poor kids have suffered enough.Is anyone on here following the "slopalong" thread?
I wouldn't wish those recipes on anyone, not even mAlice!
this was when Ioan was in NYCJust a random thought. I wonder if Ioan had either one, or both of the girls, and had taken them to the cinema. The Abuser knew and went there to cause trouble/stalk.
She had said one was on a play date that evening. I wonder had she gone to the cinema & the arrangement was to pick her up from there. Maybe she arrived in a state & had a go at the friends parent who tried to offer support. We’ve seen how she handles offers of support on Twitter so I imagine she is as bad if not worse face to face. Maybe said child looked awkward about going home with Mum & the parent was concerned enough to call for help.Just a random thought. I wonder if Ioan had either one, or both of the girls, and had taken them to the cinema. The Abuser knew and went there to cause trouble/stalk.
Also I think Ioan knew his livelihood and therefore the children's livelihoods would be destroyed if he left them . He must have been in such a quandary as he knew she would and could destroy him .This is what convinces me, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that Malice is a Grade A sociopath and narcissist (and bleep, obviously). Most women, after scream-raging to their friends and loved ones, would have thought ‘to hell with him; if he doesn’t want me, he must be a suppurating arsehat’ and would move on, pay attention to their physical appearance, health and fitness, look after their children, find another man and be coldly cordial to their ex for the children’s sake. Not our Malice: it’s always Groundhog Day with our Malice.
(Did I mention that she’s a bleep?)
Abuse doesn’t work like that. Narcissists manipulate, brainwash and gaslight you after they’ve lovebombed and sucked you in. Over time, in such tiny increments that you are unaware of anything other than a deep sense of unease, they whittle away at everything you are, destroying your boundaries and self-esteem. Then, when they have used up all your value as their supply, they callously ditch you and move on to the next victim (whom they usually have lined up).
I was in a fiveyear relationship with a narcissist who played through this abusive pattern. It started with lovebombing, moved on to devaluing me over something exceedingly insignificant, and became incredibly emotionally, verbally and physically violent. Was it my fault that I didn’t leave the first time I was struck? Should I blame myself for not having been able to pull away from someone who played so skilfully with my emotions that I didn’t know if up were down or right was Wednesday? Should victims be held to the same standards as aggressors?
Apply for PIPSGlad (though that is not the appropriate word) to have a sister-in-suffering-and-sertraline… I’m even more glad that you’ve come through it, and that this site helped so much. Our community is a brilliant one, and has stopped me from feeling so alone and isolated (I’m as much of a shut-in as Malice, though for very different reasons: the place in which I live has suffered horrendously due to Brexit and Covid, there’s nowhere to go and nothing to do that doesn’t involve a 3 hour train and bus journey (I don’t drive), and a lot of friends fell away during the various lockdowns… so the warmth and camaraderie of this site has proven invaluable). The dole is awful, isn’t it (and so paltry, the worst in Western Europe)? But, yes - I’ve worked all hours, paid taxes and helped to educate a lot of fantastic young people. Just can’t wait to get more tutoring positions. What has slightly lifted my mood is that soon, I’ll be moving north to God’s country (Yorkshire) and away from my narcissistic, depressing, manipulative and verbally abusive father.
-I had a pretty bad reaction to Venlafaxine; twenty minutes after I took it, a red rash dropped like a veil from my forehead to my navel! I don’t respond well to prescription meds at all. I’m so glad that it’s worked for you, though, and that you’re in so much of a better place. I was really worried about you for a while; and, having gone through a very similar situation, I know just how much it hurts. But it’s such a relief when you wake up one day and think ‘thank God. He’s gone. I’m free.’
To keep this OT, I wonder whether Malice is preparing to deploy another ‘mole’ on Tattle in the foreseeable? The FP alt really stretched their credulity gossamer-thin; they’d ‘read’ the whole Wiki (hundreds of pages in an afternoon? I’m an extremely fast reader and it took me several days to go through it, due to the distressing material it contained), yet still wanted ‘evidence’ or ‘proof’ re: Alice’s parenting? Sure, because screaming that you want your children’s father to die is so heartwarming… but that bit about being unapologetic re: their previous posts was the cherry on the parfait. With no evidence at all, they went after BW in the most vicious of ways - yet wanted infallible proof that AE was the bad guy? Oy. Vey. Squared.
I completely agree. The longer you’re with a narcissist and the more you witness their lazy, self-indulgent, immoral and amoral behaviour, their antagonism, their endless baiting of others, the constant lies, the cheating and substance abuse, the more frustrated you become until love just oozes away. Then they try to lovebomb you so that you don’t abandon them - and manage to be pleasant and decent for at least a couple of days, reminding you why you fell for them in the first place. Towards the end of my relationship with the narcissist ex, when I was dealing with nursing my grandmother/her death/my father’s subsequent nervous breakdown/a huge breast cancer scare and months of painful treatment, he was spectacularly uninterested in any of my problems - because they didn’t affect *him*. I imagine that’s what IG experienced with Malice: dragged off set during the pandemic, forced to stay in close proximity to her, she became evermore contemptuous of his needs and revealed, finally and completely, her messy, drink-and-drug fuelled (a ‘nibble’ of a tramadol every now and then my arse), lazy and vicious self. He had the strength and courage to realise that if he stayed with Malice, his life would be a living death and he wouldn’t be able to parent his daughters properly. It was only that she hadn’t reached the discard phase and found his replacement - thus losing her privileged lifestyle - that caused her to go batshit. Narcs are shells of human beings: their exterior is grandiosity, arrogance and hubris, but inside they’re a three year old child who hates themselves (but also, like a toddler, thinks they can get away with anything). She showed her real self and he hated it. The end.Also I think Ioan knew his livelihood and therefore the children's livelihoods would be destroyed if he left them . He must have been in such a quandary as he knew she would and could destroy him .
My opinion is he has hated her a long time but was too frightened to leave . He suffered her because he was away most of the time. His own parents said the marriage was in trouble a long time ago.
Well you big lump of lazy lardass he finally left and he's fighting back. He's employable in the job he loves and going from strength to strength unlike you !
Plus you put him and Bianca on the map for i never heard of her before and although I liked him acting i now seek him out. He's younger looking, better looking now he's happy
H. Being a wifeWhat should Alice get better at?
A. Being a mother
B. Parking
C. Acting
D. Designing handbags
E. Keeping her mouth shut
F. Budgeting
G. All of the above
She’s never going to be able to manage A-J, though, is she?H. Being a wife
I. Being a daughter
J. Being a sister (hand over that fookin kidney)
K. Being honest