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Tattle doesn’t make these decisions. The courts do. They have far more information than we do and will be employing child specialists to see what the girls can handle. OF COURSE we would all love for Ioan to have 100 percent custody until Alice gets help. Unfortunately, it doesn’t always work that way. Ioan just taking the kids and running is called kidnapping in California. He’s asking for reunification - what more do you want? That’s pretty extreme and shows the PA has gotten so much worse than any of us have imagined. You’re certainly not the only one on here fighting for the kids. Everyone on here has the kids’ best interests at heart. We’ve been discussing this for months. But there are legal guidelines that have to be followed, particularly in such an ugly, contentious divorce. I wish it were that simple, but it’s not. We have due process here, so not everyone just gets to lie and tell a random story and get custody. I would say that’s why Ioan’s team has worked so damn hard on the TRO and PRO. That should make you feel a little better?
BigBonedBuzzard
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Both of them have refused the girls phone calls?
So are the girls calling Bianca now?
Come on Alice, for a person that lies so much I'd expect you to be better at it.
NigelTufnel
Active member
That’s it in a nutshell. I used to feel very sorry for her and there is still a big part of me which is desperate for her to see sense before she complete destroys herself despite how maddening she is. All she had to do was apologise, accept things had changed and she could have been well on the way to a great new life with a decent chunk of Ioan’s earnings to help. It would have been a few months of turmoil and sadness admittedly, but not two years plus of burning every bridge to the ground. It’s so bloody unnecessary and self-defeating and all because she cannot deal with admitting she was wrong and needs to change.
I came here because I liked how you didn’t toe the line in pretending her behaviour was justified which doesn’t help, you have given her great advice rather than made things worse. If she cannot handle being mocked she needs to change her behaviour; when I was young I acted like an idiot and deserved to be mocked. It only hurts if it’s true. We are actually trying to help by showing her how ridiculous and unnecessary this is. The “oh poor you” brigade are enabling her destruction. I wish she was able to see past her ego and see the truth for a better life but I don’t think it’s possible, which is scary but not our problem.
ButterTart
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I sold my first script. Just because it’s her first doesn’t necessarily mean it’s bad.
Jemadah
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Exactly. And again I'll repeat - there is no need for Alice to read here and there is no need for Alice to post rubbish on social media which then leads us to comment upon it. Ditto for SockBro. They could log off and move on but they don't. They feed off the attention because it's all they have left.
In CockBro's case it's even more laughable. 'Defending' his sister. From a few truthful words typed on a website neither of them have to use? Come on. If I asked one of my siblings to 'defend' me, first they'd ask was I being verbally abused or threatened face to face and then if I said it was actually a few faceless keyboard warriors they'd laugh at me, take my phone, delete my accounts, then give it back and tell me to move on. You know - like a grown up?
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welp
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the bro is still at it, but in a super non-Alice awkward way.
I honestly think it's him that has been tweeting with almost no interruption from 7 pm until *checks notes* now 11 am. Obviously coordinated with what Alice is doing (both dropped prostitute references).
Every day I wonder how Ioan married into such a crazy family
I honestly think it's him that has been tweeting with almost no interruption from 7 pm until *checks notes* now 11 am. Obviously coordinated with what Alice is doing (both dropped prostitute references).
Every day I wonder how Ioan married into such a crazy family
mickeycat
Chatty Member
Every time a newbie came along and posted a question about the best way to get rid of slugs, there would be hundreds of comments. The pro-pellets vs anti would get really nasty with each otherOMG threatening each other over slugs?!?I just imagined all peoples from my allotment clashing and pelting each other with slugs, snowball fight style
AE has no idea what a 'toxic forum' is like if she thinks this it it.
Mad Betty
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Sadly, the TRO does not have the same teeth. I have a PRO against someone here in LA and I know a bit about them. The TRO was quite broad in its language as it was a general form quickly approved on an emergency basis. PROs are very specific and therefore far easier to enforce. August 2 will make all the difference in the world, because I suspect it will include additions like SM and perhaps interviews, articles, etc. Basically, it will have gold capped teeth.
LeftoverCoffee
Active member
Less talk Alice, if you have all this PROOF and all these RECEIPTS, how about you get off your fat bloated wino arse and get down to the next hearing? Let's see if you can trump 113 pages of documented abuse and harassment somehow. Go on. Prove us wrong. Shut us up. Send us packing. We're waiting.
WinterSolstice
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Zippysays
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This is not related to an online group, but I used to live in a very affluent road amongst some of the weirdest and unfriendly neighbours you could imagine...I used to get (posted to me with stamps on!) Strangely written threatening letters - it had to be my neighbours because one referred to 'cleaning my mucky windows' and another to 'sort out my wild over proud conifer' this was also followed by a threat to contact my local council. Never did find out who the writer was, but my suspicions were either of the two strange women who lived next door (both sides). One of them used to spy on me from a top window and was known to be 'unstable'. The other would purposefully turn on her leaf hoover if I put my music on in the garden, thus ruining my enjoyment of Kate Bush. Admittedly, my windows did need a good clean, but in my defense, there were loads of Windows, I couldn't afford a regular cleaner and was on my own working full time. The conifer was very proud and I suppose a bit cocky. But they could have just shouted to me in the garden, rather than go to the lengths of sticking stamp to envelope, the wonky writing and using postman pat. People are strange, the world over. I'm happy to say though, I live in a nice place now with very friendly neighbours, who wave at me and if I'm lucky, fetch my bins in too.
Cheezychips
Chatty Member
If I ask my other half tomorrow "would you like to see my fur purse" he will just think its some tat I've bought off eBay and decline. More fool him
Is it like a sporran?
NigelTufnel
Active member
I like how they aren’t afraid to be photographed looking happy and living their lives now. They don’t flaunt anything, they just don’t hide away either - just as it should be. It shows Alice doesn’t control Ioan anymore. It’s very sad the girls are only getting to see Alice’s warped side of things, but in time they’ll realise their dad left because he couldn’t take any more control and abuse, fought hard to see them but was held back by their mum and is allowed to be happy. I just hope they aren’t completely broken by that point
Ioan needs to go hard now, as it were.
Mad Betty
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Everyone, nothing will happen until later next week. Lawyers are on holiday and courts are closed on our Independence day here in the US -- July 4th. I suspect there will be quite a bit of action this week given all that's happened.
Also, having a PRO in place here in Los Angeles County does not mean you lose your children. Yes, Ioan would very likely get at least 50/50 custody given Alice's behavior. The girls wellness and reunification with their dad would be the priority. My hope is some form of behavioral modification support/treatment will be put in place. Everyone wins this way, IMO.
These are my thoughts on a day everyone is sharing theirs.
Also, having a PRO in place here in Los Angeles County does not mean you lose your children. Yes, Ioan would very likely get at least 50/50 custody given Alice's behavior. The girls wellness and reunification with their dad would be the priority. My hope is some form of behavioral modification support/treatment will be put in place. Everyone wins this way, IMO.
These are my thoughts on a day everyone is sharing theirs.
Mad Betty
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He needs a visit from the Bristol Police. That is not okay. He is a deeply disturbed person to post such a graphically violent and threatening thing.
"I visualize cutting your throat slowing" means slowly, of course. No healthy or sane person posts such a thing.
IKickLikeKatya
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Such a shame that Betty will lose Alice as a neighbour so soon. Get packing Alice!
