In the State of Cali where they live ? NoneAt the beginning I understood her desire to show how hurt she was. I understood wanting to make him feel bad and see how broken she was.
I felt the same - the world needs to see he is the bad guy and I am the victim. I need to shame him.
But Alice, it’s nearly been two years.
Even if you find hard evidence he cheated, what difference will it make?
You may feel vindicated proving he was a s@&t all along but it won’t pay your bills or make your girls happy.
You have 2 bright, beautiful daughters. If you don’t stop wallowing in self-pity and put them first you are an appalling excuse of a mother!
"All divorces in California are no-fault. Thus, the party who asks for the divorce does not have to give a reason or prove that he or she was wronged by the other spouse. Judges don't consider fault when dividing property or determining support, either."