And I agree—Alice playing “fun parent” isn’t going to do her any favors for much longer.
I’m worried about how the children will grow up out in the world if they’re overexposed to Alice’s fixation on limiting rules and being constantly lovable.
Everyone knows I’m not a parent but I have experience in having been a child at some point, and I’m now grateful for my mama having played the “not-so-nice” parent at times, as “wicked” as I swore she was during those instances.
The world doesn’t prepare you for its trials and tumult—your guardians and the environment in which you’re raised do. Having your children walk away from your home with a minimal sense of boundaries, maybe even a problematic understanding of responsibility, and an assumption that the world outside your home will be consistently easy and enjoyable is a hefty price to pay for being the “fun parent.”
I hated when Alice knocked Ioan for being “boring” in the TRO docs. She actually believes that he is the poorer guardian. I don’t know the man but I imagine he’s very loving and fun enough, and, what I admire most, willing to hold the girls accountable when they falter. That’s an A+ daddy in my book.
I’m worried about how the children will grow up out in the world if they’re overexposed to Alice’s fixation on limiting rules and being constantly lovable.
Everyone knows I’m not a parent but I have experience in having been a child at some point, and I’m now grateful for my mama having played the “not-so-nice” parent at times, as “wicked” as I swore she was during those instances.
The world doesn’t prepare you for its trials and tumult—your guardians and the environment in which you’re raised do. Having your children walk away from your home with a minimal sense of boundaries, maybe even a problematic understanding of responsibility, and an assumption that the world outside your home will be consistently easy and enjoyable is a hefty price to pay for being the “fun parent.”
I hated when Alice knocked Ioan for being “boring” in the TRO docs. She actually believes that he is the poorer guardian. I don’t know the man but I imagine he’s very loving and fun enough, and, what I admire most, willing to hold the girls accountable when they falter. That’s an A+ daddy in my book.