I’m ashamed to say that if I had the money, and enough for everything else, food, home, kids etc, if I were actually wealthy that is, it would take me about five minutes to spend that amount on clothes, shoes actually.…….shows self out the door hanging head in abject shame.Bloody hell, it would take me several years to spend that much on clothes.
Doesn't measure up to the Kenneth Williams talking doll though. "Infamy, Infamy, they've all got it in for me"Now I just have in my head the brand new mAlice Talking Doll (tm). 50 threatening phrases! Comes with perma-attached iPhone, dog blanket and bucket of red lipstick! Rat and Prius Playset, Green Manky Pool funtime Playset and Parking Lot Altercation Playset sold separately!
I used to buy most of my work clothes from charity shops. Where I lived you could get some really nice things, some vintage, which I loved because they were well made and different to normal chain store clothes. I still love a rummage in a charity shop for books, clothes, and I’ve found some wonderful presents for people in there. This is something I don’t see Alice doing because she believes she is above that , she is a celebrity and it would be beneath her. Dozy bint!Thrift is also way better for the environment. Unfortunately I can never find anything good in thrift stores, though I have a friend who can find designer brands every time she goes!
I think 50/50 will be awarded too. I wouldn't be surprised if at some point Ioan gets full custody though, especially if Alice fails to find a suitable place to live.
It tells me she treated him like that for years via her social media. If she felt a slight, she would make a passive aggressive (or just downright aggressive) post about to him to show him.“Want more?” makes me feel physically sick
Would Ioan be covering the girls healthcare insurance as part of his child support? I don’t for one minute believe he should cover Alice’s health insurance, but certainly the girlsShe can definitely purchase health insurance on a government exchange (aka Obamacare) no matter her pre-existing conditions. The cost per month completely depends on what kind of coverage she chooses and what her annual income is. With no government subsidy, I’d guess her monthly premium for just her would be at least $600, and double that if she’s covering the girls too.
I think these are separate issues.Would Ioan be covering the girls healthcare insurance as part of his child support? I don’t for one minute believe he should cover Alice’s health insurance, but certainly the girls
Thing is, I think IG is so much of a gentle and kind person he will still give a lot away in consideration for his children and for her as the person he used to know and love.Agree, I think Leon was a good lawyer but he likely didn’t know what the evidence was until last minute. So much wasted time and money. No one can get Alice out of this. No one. She need to accept the PRO and accept she won’t get the money she would have had she done collaborative. If Ioan wanted I think he could now take everything including the kids easily. She wouldn’t get spousal or child support. She needs to get on her knees about now.
I don’t think anyone on the planet could have worded it better than this.Thing is, I think IG is so much of a gentle and kind person he will still give a lot away in consideration for his children and for her as the person he used to know and love.
I know hubby took a long time to recognise how wicked and narcissistic his ex was, purely because deep down he's a genuinely nice person and doesn't want to think or believe that anyone can be or behave the way these people do. Even to the extent of almost losing what they have now, unless something triggers an "epiphany".
For us it was when she threatened to put the children in care then began a couple of years of legal nonsense (lies, changing lawyers, changing testimony, etc).
For IG, he obviously reached that point and had a legal support network in place when he decided to separate.
But the thing is, at his core he is not a malicious or vindictive person. He will want the best for the person he loved, even if he no longer loves her. And he will want the best for the mother of his children, despite the fact that she is a horrible, vindictive person herself who doesn't care about hurting their children in her desire to lash out at him. Make no mistake, people like mAlice take IG's values and ethics as a weakness and she will not stop unless she breaks him.
I admire and respect his values, but he does need to stand strong against her and continue to take all the advice offered to prevent him from falling under her wicked influence. But he seems to be receiving good advice and long may he listen to it. It will, in the long run, benefit him and his children.
Cropped & BBMI think many of us know the feelings of being held to ransom by someone else’s “tantrum” (is that the correct word?) and what it feels like awaiting the punishment. You know they’re going to pull something outlandish because their behaviour has went too far. Rather than apologise they will act out even more. Boy who cried wolf, and many of us can’t bear the thought of something bad happening to another human being while it’s all just performative and fake.
Rather than own her horrendous behaviour and apologise she will double down seeking sympathy from other sources.
My heart breaks for him.
Strong minded even then, and braveMy mum loved to recall when I was 5 me turning up on the doorstep for lunch, she's doing me lunch then realises I should be at school having it, lol! I'd walked home crossing two side roads. She asks why was I not having lunch at school & I told her
"I don't like them & I don't like their dinners!" Brat!
Agree. He has been more than patient and considerate. She is not just 'not backing down', she keeps escalating.Thing is, I think IG is so much of a gentle and kind person he will still give a lot away in consideration for his children and for her as the person he used to know and love.
I know hubby took a long time to recognise how wicked and narcissistic his ex was, purely because deep down he's a genuinely nice person and doesn't want to think or believe that anyone can be or behave the way these people do. Even to the extent of almost losing what they have now, unless something triggers an "epiphany".
For us it was when she threatened to put the children in care then began a couple of years of legal nonsense (lies, changing lawyers, changing testimony, etc).
For IG, he obviously reached that point and had a legal support network in place when he decided to separate.
But the thing is, at his core he is not a malicious or vindictive person. He will want the best for the person he loved, even if he no longer loves her. And he will want the best for the mother of his children, despite the fact that she is a horrible, vindictive person herself who doesn't care about hurting their children in her desire to lash out at him. Make no mistake, people like mAlice take IG's values and ethics as a weakness and she will not stop unless she breaks him.
I admire and respect his values, but he does need to stand strong against her and continue to take all the advice offered to prevent him from falling under her wicked influence. But he seems to be receiving good advice and long may he listen to it. It will, in the long run, benefit him and his children.
He might want have wanted to do that initially but I think his attorney has shown him the error of that approach. At this stage he is letting his attorneys handle it. Any residual feelings he had is down the road like a tumbleweed in a hurricane. Being noble and kind with Alice will get him his ass handed to him on a platter.Thing is, I think IG is so much of a gentle and kind person he will still give a lot away in consideration for his children and for her as the person he used to know and love.
I know hubby took a long time to recognise how wicked and narcissistic his ex was, purely because deep down he's a genuinely nice person and doesn't want to think or believe that anyone can be or behave the way these people do. Even to the extent of almost losing what they have now, unless something triggers an "epiphany".
For us it was when she threatened to put the children in care then began a couple of years of legal nonsense (lies, changing lawyers, changing testimony, etc).
For IG, he obviously reached that point and had a legal support network in place when he decided to separate.
But the thing is, at his core he is not a malicious or vindictive person. He will want the best for the person he loved, even if he no longer loves her. And he will want the best for the mother of his children, despite the fact that she is a horrible, vindictive person herself who doesn't care about hurting their children in her desire to lash out at him. Make no mistake, people like mAlice take IG's values and ethics as a weakness and she will not stop unless she breaks him.
I admire and respect his values, but he does need to stand strong against her and continue to take all the advice offered to prevent him from falling under her wicked influence. But he seems to be receiving good advice and long may he listen to it. It will, in the long run, benefit him and his children.
I think we all need, and deserve oneGreat idea!View attachment 1371506
Love, love, love this you clever thing you. Made me chuckle and actually feel sorry for those cops, as I would any real cops having to deal with the swivel-eyed one
I know you know this, anyone silly enough to underestimate your tenacity and strength is a fool. You are compassionate and fair, I would want you on my side always.Cropped & BBM
I felt that sting not long ago. It's tactical warfare and incredibly manipulative. Thank you for putting into words what I have been feeling myself.
My heart breaks for him as well.
Would Ioan be covering the girls healthcare insurance as part of his child support? I don’t for one minute believe he should cover Alice’s health insurance, but certainly the girls
Alice is too lazy to take courses even if it means she wouldn’t get partial custody.According to one of those pages I linked last night, once he gets the PRO and 100% custody, she can get partial custody :
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ONCE SHE'S DONE THE COURSES
They’re going to be flowergirls for her imaginary boyfriendAlice is too lazy to take courses even if it means she wouldn’t get partial custody.
Alice can’t do anything about the kids meeting Bianca, that is going to happen whether she likes it or not. She can’t demand they never meet her, she certainly wouldn’t want Ioan to say the kids could never meet a man she’s going out with, that is if she ever finds one stupid enough to risk being around her.
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