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Ioan Gruffudd & Alice Evans #110 I don't eat baby sheet stirrers
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That’s very unhealthy, people with the apple shape are prone to heart disease, and her mother died from a heat attack at 59. I despise Alice, but I don’t wish her any harm, she should try and get her drinking under control, and her eating too, even though she swears she eats only healthy food. I don’t believe that for a minute.
What happens, another hearing date, or they just proceed without her?
It’s because she is an alcoholic, if she stops drinking it’ll go down tremendously.
I’m not skinny either btw!
Not meaning to fat shame at all but she gives people so much tit she deserves some back!
This!! Good to know I’m not the only one who wanted to do that!I want to do a heart and a smiley. She is a cock-thundering-bleep who needs to get her comeuppance
Seriously. I get cuter stuff on a budget from Gap and Old Navy. And stuff for teenagers too. This must be why the girls are never in the cutest, newest styles. Even if it's old and manky as long as it has a designer label.Why doesn’t she just go shopping? It’s fine to buy off Ebay if you find something cute, but just seems strange how she seems to be buying massive quantities of clothes and whatever off Ebay.
From your lips to God’s ears that this comes to an end soon. Frankly Alice is getting boring to me, but for some reason I want to stick it out to see how it ends. Hopefully Alice will get her comeuppance at last, or at least a girl can dream.
She will be a no show for sure, then constantly complain how unfair the laws are to women, how Ioan took advantage of her not having money, blah, blah, blah. Same old Alice, it will all be someone else’s fault, never her own.
@Shire-life - I'm so sorry I tagged you wrong in my earlier post. (A copy is above ^ #400) I was having a job finding you (your name wouldn't go blue) duh, 
finally realised I had been using your avatar! 
I have the brains of a rocking horse! 
Re-done it.
finally realised I had been using your avatar! I have the brains of a rocking horse! Re-done it.
@claudiarocks 
@KikiFromNy @Caroline Of Brunswick @Shire-life @sallygsoton @ThisishowIlivenow
@tropeonarope @lulooo @Junebug895 @peteburnsreincarnated @Autisteuse
all so much for your kind supportive & lovely messages, your caring words made me cry, (there's still a part of me from my childhood that makes me feel unworthy) your words touched me very much.
Loads of love & hugs to you all, 
xxx
@KikiFromNy @Caroline Of Brunswick @Shire-life @sallygsoton @ThisishowIlivenow @tropeonarope
@lulooo @Junebug895 @peteburnsreincarnated @Autisteuse
all so much for your kind supportive & lovely messages, your caring words made me cry, (there's still a part of me from my childhood that makes me feel unworthy) your words touched me very much.
Loads of love & hugs to you all, xxxI’m not fat shaming her either, just have noticed her huge stomach, which most doctors would be very concerned about.
And I'm sure her doctor would be concerned - if she ever went to one. Why bother when Dr Google is always available.
It’s a cross between a dress from Shrek and an ugly ass house dress in shirt form! And as usual she’s flaunting her flabby af boobs that she thinks look hot as hell! 🫣That top is rank. Okay if you're cleaning the house in it (oh that's right, mAlice doesn't clean, silly me
) and it's too small as well! She hasn't realised yet that wearing something in the wrong size, makes you look worse ffs!
Bring back the dog blankets
Note. I’m not knocking flabby or saggy breasts. After nursing two babies mine are deflated like a balloon that’s been blown up too many times. But I don’t go around dressing like a middle aged hooker either.
Yep, if she doesn't turn up they'll just proceed without her so she'd be ceding her right to argue her case and provide witnesses so the permanent restraining order would almost certainly be granted.
She compared her kids to a dog 🫣
If eBay was a casino, they would be comping her a room, food, spa treatments... Seems she's that good a customer
Trauma is trauma is trauma.
There is no trauma competition.
It doesn’t matter if your trauma is combat in war. It doesn’t matter if your trauma was physical abuse. Or emotional abuse. Or abuse by a partner or parent. Doesn’t matter if it was a car accident, a bomb in Baghdad, an internment camp, years of being put down, a natural disaster, being bullied....
Trauma is trauma. Full stop.
The psychology, the circumstances might be different, but what it does to the brain, is the exact same in every.single.circumstance.
The brain, particularly the lower portion of the brain (lizard brain as some call it), is highly sensitive to trauma. So when a person experiences trauma that lower part of the brain, which is highly connected to the nervous system responds. So you get a nervous system which is hyper reactive, highly attuned, and gets used to running the show. Physically this is going to manifest in elevated heart rate, increased blood pressure, short and shallow breathing…..like a zebra running away from a lion. In humans it will also make us more prone to quick thoughts which may not always be accurate.
That lower part of the brain which is so sensitive to trauma is not always connected to higher order upper brain thinking. So lower brain is not going to sit there and debate the finer points of should I be this way, do I have a right to this, is this trauma an actual trauma in comparison to the 15 people I’m thinking of? All it’s going to do is react to protect your ass.
Again. Trauma is trauma is trauma.
It profoundly impacts the brain and the way the brain functions.
The psychology, circumstances, and resources of a person determine the impact of trauma. If you have trauma and you have no resources, no help, no support, the odds are against you. If you have trauma and resources, and support, guess what? You do pretty well. If you have trauma, resources, and you don’t lean in, don’t recognize it, don’t work it, you get what we’re looking at.
BPD, NPD, abusive personalities very rarely arise from nothing, although it’s possible. Having a trauma background does not excuse or condone behavior, it gives a framework for understanding. I can have empathy for what likely happened in Alice’s childhood. I get how it fucked up her brain and her behavior. But, she’s an adult now. Part of that is looking at ourselves, our past, and our aspirations. She’s not doing that in any open, deliberate, or conscious way. She's ruled by impulsive, instinctual choices devoid of examination.
I will say this until the day I die: Trauma is Trauma is Trauma. There are no trauma Olympics. No one wins. No one places 1st, 2nd, or 3rd. All trauma impacts the brain the same way. Your trauma is just as important, just as worthy of love and empathy, just as worthy of examination.
There is no trauma competition.
It doesn’t matter if your trauma is combat in war. It doesn’t matter if your trauma was physical abuse. Or emotional abuse. Or abuse by a partner or parent. Doesn’t matter if it was a car accident, a bomb in Baghdad, an internment camp, years of being put down, a natural disaster, being bullied....
Trauma is trauma. Full stop.
The psychology, the circumstances might be different, but what it does to the brain, is the exact same in every.single.circumstance.
The brain, particularly the lower portion of the brain (lizard brain as some call it), is highly sensitive to trauma. So when a person experiences trauma that lower part of the brain, which is highly connected to the nervous system responds. So you get a nervous system which is hyper reactive, highly attuned, and gets used to running the show. Physically this is going to manifest in elevated heart rate, increased blood pressure, short and shallow breathing…..like a zebra running away from a lion. In humans it will also make us more prone to quick thoughts which may not always be accurate.
That lower part of the brain which is so sensitive to trauma is not always connected to higher order upper brain thinking. So lower brain is not going to sit there and debate the finer points of should I be this way, do I have a right to this, is this trauma an actual trauma in comparison to the 15 people I’m thinking of? All it’s going to do is react to protect your ass.
Again. Trauma is trauma is trauma.
It profoundly impacts the brain and the way the brain functions.
The psychology, circumstances, and resources of a person determine the impact of trauma. If you have trauma and you have no resources, no help, no support, the odds are against you. If you have trauma and resources, and support, guess what? You do pretty well. If you have trauma, resources, and you don’t lean in, don’t recognize it, don’t work it, you get what we’re looking at.
BPD, NPD, abusive personalities very rarely arise from nothing, although it’s possible. Having a trauma background does not excuse or condone behavior, it gives a framework for understanding. I can have empathy for what likely happened in Alice’s childhood. I get how it fucked up her brain and her behavior. But, she’s an adult now. Part of that is looking at ourselves, our past, and our aspirations. She’s not doing that in any open, deliberate, or conscious way. She's ruled by impulsive, instinctual choices devoid of examination.
I will say this until the day I die: Trauma is Trauma is Trauma. There are no trauma Olympics. No one wins. No one places 1st, 2nd, or 3rd. All trauma impacts the brain the same way. Your trauma is just as important, just as worthy of love and empathy, just as worthy of examination.
I think bright jewel colours suit her! 
But if there’s no food and they’re all starving, why would she be gaining weight
I’ll just keep saying this … sometimes a bleep is just a bleep. And I don’t see anyone making a trauma competition here.
No one knows anything about Alice’s childhood or upbringing or interior life. No one knows if there was any actual, serious trauma in her life. So all we can go on is her actions. The rest of it sounds like an excuse.
All I can do is judge her by her actions. Which are toxic, reprehensible and as she is an adult, something she can control. She chooses not to, with great damage to others.
That is what I focus on. Your mileage may vary.
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Please let it be so.
I also hope Ioan submits the rest of the evidence?If Alice was sweet, kind, happy, and well groomed, plus had integrity I’m positive I wouldn’t even notice her figure.
She also said she ate all the cheese off a lasagna, alcatone rhapsodized about potato sandwiches, she apparently adores salad crème and loves to order cakes in ! And let’s not forget eat 3 healthy vegan meals at once ….
. I think she tries hard and then when she goes into the heavy drinking, she tries to sop up the hangover with binge eating. Many of us have those memories from our early party days but most of us quickly begin to realize the reality of slowing down and moderation the first time we hear about our bloodwork being wonky or other health ailments. I can’t imagine she isn’t pushing edge of diabetes or at very least high chloresterol and heart issues! She IS like the great orange beast Trump! That dude should’ve died from massive coronary from lack of exercise and fast food diet but I think his rage, malicious attitude (bully, mocking) and selfishness keeps him going. Kinda like our Malice. I would like to see her face off with him in debate. It would be off the charts in middle school name calling and extreme Karening! Lol- Status