As for the earlier "The Other Woman" discussion: I never understood the obsession to demonize those women.
My dad cheated on my mom with my sister's best friend. He never admitted it, but it was balatantly obvious for all three of us. My mom never blamed the girl, she even said: "good on her, if a man is dumb enough to empty his pockets for you she would be dumb to not go for it" - eventually the affair ended, we all have a great relationship to her and she became my sister's bridesmaid and my nephews godmother.
Sure, if you have a very very very high moral compass you back off, especially when kids are involved. But if the man tells you that the relationship is terrible and he wants to slowly end it you will not completely stay away from them, you will flirt etc in order to be the first in line when he is available. There is nothing wrong with that in my opinion. And it's funny to me because Alice tweeted that if she would have a crush on a married man she would give him her number and tell him to call her after the divorce if she is still single. Well, maybe that's what happened (seperation instead of divorce, but hardly anyone waits for the formal divorce)
The only scenario where I would blame the OW is if they blackmail their lover into leaving (and to an certain extend manipulating the relationship to the kids, but that's technically on the husband to put the foot down)
Other than that it's completely on the husband IMO, the other woman doesnt have any responsibility towards the wife either (I mean in my personal life example the connection was a lot more horrendously close), so it's pretty telling for me that Alice always focuses more on Bianca than on him. It's not even because she hates woman, it's something many women do strangely, and I really dont get this. My mom may not be the best example either, but there are also many women who embrace it that they are free of someone that wasnt as good as they thought and are actually thankful to the other woman (Alice does try to push that narrative too, but she contradicts it the whole time and isnt acting like someone that wants to move on, no matter how much she uses financial reasons as a excuse, it's every time a different one)
The only thing that bothers me about Bianca is this overly gushy tit and while I think her overly positive attitude is the correct approach for her disease it will have its downsides in other parts of life. I also still have doubts over her intentions for various reasons, but I'm not going to outline those again (lol)
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the sheer fuckwittery of that woman has made our household budget spreadsheets and my company annual budget a work of wonder and beauty as I make them to relax after a hefty Alice dose.
