Going to a hotel is completely different, you really can't compare the two things. People choosing to spend money on a Christmas meal at a hotel will have certain expectations about what will be provided, the surroundings and ambience, the service etc. You are talking about putting on a very expensive buffet in your own home and charging people extra to use your pool in case a child s***ts in it. Can you not see that those are two very different things?Okay, I've stopped liking everyone's posts because they're getting a bit nasty.
My original post was serious, and I do appreciate everyone taking the time to comment.
The pool thing is a big deal where I am, because if we have (another) code brown the whole thing has to be emptied and re-filled, and that costs a lot to do. If you go to a Council-run pool you'd pay $12-$15 for the privilege anyway, so I don't think it's cheeky to charge guests to use it. And no @Rayne , I was not intending to charge $100 per person to use the pool.
I attended a wedding a couple of years ago where we were asked to pay a per-head fee to cover food and venue hire, but no presents; and I've attended work functions in the past which have been the same. I had no issue with it.
A couple of people I did float the idea by thought it was great - one even said, if you were going to a hotel, the flat rate is normally $120+, which a lot of people seem okay with paying, so why should this be any different?
And no, I am not bitter (whoever suggested that) about past experiences - times are tough enough without all the stress of having to spend so much money on the silly season.
A grazing table is like this:
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... the Christmas one will have desserts also.
I also wouldn't put too much weight on the fact that you've asked a few people and they thought it was a great idea. It's entirely possible they were saying what they thought you wanted to hear.
If you are really set on doing it then go ahead, I just wouldn't expect that you'll have people clamouring to attend so you could end up even more out of pocket.