You've explained it much better than I could've and I was scared to in case I said the wrong thing. Nella was aggressive towards him accusing him of disrespecting her, she didn't let him speak at all or try to discuss calmly.
Fred has 2 children and his partner is from Jamaica so I don't believe for one second he'd mean to upset her. I'm kinda worried how she plays this 'victim' card going forward not just with Fred but with others. If you're a mature adult and going to be stuck together for maybe 3 weeks you would try to work it out and get on. Lets see how the food thing plays out, I predict she'll say she's ill due to the lack of food but of course it's not her fault.
I appreciate you reading all I wrote and understanding. I completely understand why you felt scared to say the wrong thing cause there’s times I’ve felt scared too because the world we live in now you will be called racist when you’ve said nothing racist you’ve just called someone out for their words or actions that are so disgusting and wrong. I hate when the race card is used to defend her because it takes away from the actual racism happening in the world to people who are getting insulted or treated badly because of their race.
Nella is completely in the wrong and had no right to speak Fred like that he did nothing wrong which I hope he knows and millions of people every day say the exact same phrase he said as he was referring to the age gap between them which is normal thing older people say to someone younger than them. She needs to be humbled her ego is huge and she needs people in her life who will call her out and make her take accountability so that she can grow as a person because the world don’t revolve around her people should not have to walk around on egg shells around her. Her thinking she’s something special and trying to make it seem like being her friend is a big deal I don’t like people like that who are big headed thinking because of their job and the amount of followers they have it makes them entitled to talk down to someone.
She could took time to think about what he said and meant before having a go at him even though it was very clear he was just talking about the age gap but she just made it all about herself. He said sorry to her when he didn’t need to be sorry and he was actually so patient to her while she threw insults at him and anyone could see he was so confused because he did nothing wrong so she should of took that moment to calm down , take accountability for her being in the wrong and genuinely say sorry and then moved on. Her keeping her back to him and ignoring him saying to the others “why’s he keep calling my name?” then refusing his cooking is horrible. I hope she gets voted out before him maybe it’ll humble her.
An attitude like hers could ruin her reputation which in a way it kind of has as she’s come across horrible so she needs to work on herself as a person and get over this victim complex or else she’ll cause problems like this again and again for herself.