£41k secretary which I see a bit more of now it’s a hybrid role. I’m a single parent to two teens so it doesn’t go very far unfortunately and so I work weekends too as a cleaner but much better than when I found myself with no job during covid.
And we do live in the most beautiful part of the country, thats what i am going to start telling myself!So much of what you say I can relate to. I’m on my own with my daughter though so I live to a budget which on paper you wouldn’t think I’d have to. Can’t help but feel some envy at some of these salaries. Maybe it’s time I start playing the lottery![]()
Please dont feel like that. I too felt abit wobbly and wondered about my own life when reading some of the posts. But you are so bleeping brave for being self employed.This thread makes me realise how badly I get paid. £10 an hour WFH admin for a small company. I don’t get holiday/sickness/pension as I am classed as self employed. I work my butt off and even though I’m not officially a supervisor or manager I do have to boss other staff around. I’m nearly 35 and feel like a complete failure at life![]()
You're not a failure! Are you able to look elsewhere for work, with benefits like sick & holiday pay? I'm in my 30s and working for minimum wage, but it's all a stepping stone to better things. It's never too late for change!This thread makes me realise how badly I get paid. £10 an hour WFH admin for a small company. I don’t get holiday/sickness/pension as I am classed as self employed. I work my butt off and even though I’m not officially a supervisor or manager I do have to boss other staff around. I’m nearly 35 and feel like a complete failure at life![]()
I’d rather be employed and have that stability. I did ask once but they refused which I think is a bit tit considering I work 35-40 hours a week for them. Not having any holiday completely burns me out. I take one or two weeks off a year and then panic because I’m not earning anything during that time. I’m intelligent and could do much better, I just don’t have much experience in anything that’s going to earn me much more money (history is care work, hospitality and HCA for NHS) it also doesn’t help that I need to WFH now xPlease dont feel like that. I too felt abit wobbly and wondered about my own life when reading some of the posts. But you are so bleeping brave for being self employed.
I need to WFH so I don’t know what jobs to look for. I really don’t want to do call centre work from home as I used to do it and can’t stand being on the phone all day now because I get irritated by noise. I don’t mind the occasional phone call though. The job I do at the moment means I can quietly get on with my job and maybe take one or two phone calls a day. I just don’t know what to do xYou're not a failure! Are you able to look elsewhere for work, with benefits like sick & holiday pay? I'm in my 30s and working for minimum wage, but it's all a stepping stone to better things. It's never too late for change!
A lot of jobs are offering WFH now. Where it was a USP before it is now expected as standardI’d rather be employed and have that stability. I did ask once but they refused which I think is a bit tit considering I work 35-40 hours a week for them. Not having any holiday completely burns me out. I take one or two weeks off a year and then panic because I’m not earning anything during that time. I’m intelligent and could do much better, I just don’t have much experience in anything that’s going to earn me much more money (history is care work, hospitality and HCA for NHS) it also doesn’t help that I need to WFH now x
I need to WFH so I don’t know what jobs to look for. I really don’t want to do call centre work from home as I used to do it and can’t stand being on the phone all day now because I get irritated by noise. I don’t mind the occasional phone call though. The job I do at the moment means I can quietly get on with my job and maybe take one or two phone calls a day. I just don’t know what to do x
There are social media community management and moderation roles that are WFH and pay better. DM if you want some companies.I’d rather be employed and have that stability. I did ask once but they refused which I think is a bit tit considering I work 35-40 hours a week for them. Not having any holiday completely burns me out. I take one or two weeks off a year and then panic because I’m not earning anything during that time. I’m intelligent and could do much better, I just don’t have much experience in anything that’s going to earn me much more money (history is care work, hospitality and HCA for NHS) it also doesn’t help that I need to WFH now x
I need to WFH so I don’t know what jobs to look for. I really don’t want to do call centre work from home as I used to do it and can’t stand being on the phone all day now because I get irritated by noise. I don’t mind the occasional phone call though. The job I do at the moment means I can quietly get on with my job and maybe take one or two phone calls a day. I just don’t know what to do x
I think the problem is that schools don't teach which professions earn a lot. study hard, lots of school = doctor makes big bucks, study then shorter certifications in say marketing = big money as you go up the ladder. where i'm from psychologist get paid not much better then a cashier, and thats after a masters. schools don't teach nuance.Does anyone else think back to when they were younger; we were taught (well i was anyway) to do well at school, pass my exams, go to uni and then it would be easy to earn decent money? I come from a very low working class family, my family still live in the council house i grew up in, and my parents were never wealthy. But i was always taught that the better student you were the more you would earn! (how bloody wrong that was)!!
I did graduate in 2009 which was the worst bleeping year for graduates following the crash and i ended up signing on when i finished my BA. I did end up getting a job (back home in my hometown and on pretty tit pay), but then i went back to uni to do my MA. Dont get me wrong it gave me a profession and im a social worker, but looking at what other people earn compared to me, and when i think to the responsibility i have, its actually not a great paid job at all.
Dont get me wrong me and other half both earn and we have a mortgage, 2 amazing kids, and we are happy. But sometimes i do feel like i have wasted my life, and i could have done so much better for myself. But i live in the Lake District- yes its beautiful but its hardly the economic capital of the world!!! Sometimes i do feel a bit jealous when i see people earning so much more than me, especially as it was drilled into me to study study study and the rewards would be instant following graduation.
But we are happy, and there people alot worse off than me. So i should be grateful for what i have got
Your employer will need to change its working model in light of the new IR35 regulations.I’d rather be employed and have that stability. I did ask once but they refused which I think is a bit tit considering I work 35-40 hours a week for them. Not having any holiday completely burns me out. I take one or two weeks off a year and then panic because I’m not earning anything during that time. I’m intelligent and could do much better, I just don’t have much experience in anything that’s going to earn me much more money (history is care work, hospitality and HCA for NHS) it also doesn’t help that I need to WFH now x
Don’t feel like that at all. If you are really unhappy and other salaries are higher for the same job it’s definitely worth seeing what’s out there!This thread makes me realise how badly I get paid. £10 an hour WFH admin for a small company. I don’t get holiday/sickness/pension as I am classed as self employed. I work my butt off and even though I’m not officially a supervisor or manager I do have to boss other staff around. I’m nearly 35 and feel like a complete failure at life![]()
Niceeeee! What do you do? Feel free to be general or not to answer at all£26k for 2.5 days a week. Can’t complain.
I’d say you’ve done very well to end up as a social worker. It’s never easy to earn a decent wageDoes anyone else think back to when they were younger; we were taught (well i was anyway) to do well at school, pass my exams, go to uni and then it would be easy to earn decent money? I come from a very low working class family, my family still live in the council house i grew up in, and my parents were never wealthy. But i was always taught that the better student you were the more you would earn! (how bloody wrong that was)!!
I did graduate in 2009 which was the worst bleeping year for graduates following the crash and i ended up signing on when i finished my BA. I did end up getting a job (back home in my hometown and on pretty tit pay), but then i went back to uni to do my MA. Dont get me wrong it gave me a profession and im a social worker, but looking at what other people earn compared to me, and when i think to the responsibility i have, its actually not a great paid job at all.
Dont get me wrong me and other half both earn and we have a mortgage, 2 amazing kids, and we are happy. But sometimes i do feel like i have wasted my life, and i could have done so much better for myself. But i live in the Lake District- yes its beautiful but its hardly the economic capital of the world!!! Sometimes i do feel a bit jealous when i see people earning so much more than me, especially as it was drilled into me to study study study and the rewards would be instant following graduation.
But we are happy, and there people alot worse off than me. So i should be grateful for what i have got
Parents have the ability to teach this tooI think the problem is that schools don't teach which professions earn a lot. study hard, lots of school = doctor makes big bucks, study then shorter certifications in say marketing = big money as you go up the ladder. where i'm from psychologist get paid not much better then a cashier, and thats after a masters. schools don't teach nuance.
Thank you. I don’t know how to DM on here?There are social media community management and moderation roles that are WFH and pay better. DM if you want some companies.
Not really. I’ve just done my first year tax return and could claim quite a bit for new laptop and office furniture but in general it’ll just be a percentage of the household bills and phone.Your employer will need to change its working model in light of the new IR35 regulations.
We used to use consultants but they didn’t work for anyone else - so now the company has brought them in on an employed basis.
Presume your tax situation Is at least very beneficial if you are self employed? Can you write a lot of a stuff off as ‘work expenses‘ ?
Now is the time to find something new! Hybrid working and WFH is the norm now xI’d rather be employed and have that stability. I did ask once but they refused which I think is a bit tit considering I work 35-40 hours a week for them. Not having any holiday completely burns me out. I take one or two weeks off a year and then panic because I’m not earning anything during that time. I’m intelligent and could do much better, I just don’t have much experience in anything that’s going to earn me much more money (history is care work, hospitality and HCA for NHS) it also doesn’t help that I need to WFH now x
I need to WFH so I don’t know what jobs to look for. I really don’t want to do call centre work from home as I used to do it and can’t stand being on the phone all day now because I get irritated by noise. I don’t mind the occasional phone call though. The job I do at the moment means I can quietly get on with my job and maybe take one or two phone calls a day. I just don’t know what to do x
I'm a bit jealous he could retire at 40, but fair play! I respect people who retire when they can afford to, rather than working for years and years to get money that they don't need. Though obviously it's everyone's choice.The thing about earning over £100k (don't get me wrong I'd love to earn that) is that your expenses/ lifestyle tend to increase to match so you probably don't feel much better off.
So I know someone whose household income (both work FT, no kids) is about £200-250k. Yes they have a million pound house (although as it's in London it's an ordinaryish 3 bed albeit in a lovely area), but they also spend £££s on clothes (no Primark or Asda for them, and they work in the City so it's all formal wear suits most of the time). Nights out are all overpriced London bars rather than steak and a wine in the Wetherspoons (which does me fine!) and they won't go on a holiday unless it's a 5 star resort.
I do know someone else who earned huge amounts as a City trader in the 90s (I'm guessing the equivalent of £200k a year or more), and retired 20 years ago (aged 40) on a massive pension. Hasn't worked since!
You're not a failure! Sounds to me like you work hard in a professional job. You've got, and are gaining, skills and you can take those to another workplace/job should you choose to.This thread makes me realise how badly I get paid. £10 an hour WFH admin for a small company. I don’t get holiday/sickness/pension as I am classed as self employed. I work my butt off and even though I’m not officially a supervisor or manager I do have to boss other staff around. I’m nearly 35 and feel like a complete failure at life![]()