My first baby took roughly around 5-6 years. I knew I wanted to be a mother from a pretty young age, around 16. I wasn't careful and had a few sexual partners, but nothing happened. I had a partner for around 2 years, we even actively tried (positions, head stands, timings) and nothing. I ended up meeting someone else, he was adamant very early on that he wanted a child and I admitted to this slight problem I had, we tried right away, nothing. After 18 months, we got married, accepted it probably wasn't going to happen, so we got a puppy together instead after we got back from our honeymoon. A month later I found out I was pregnant.