whatshernameagain_93
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Mum takes young boy on a bus....revolutionary
I know, what a 'treat'!!!!! Take the kid to see some animals or a library ffs
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I know, what a 'treat'!!!!! Take the kid to see some animals or a library ffs
Puffin_island
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When she first began using it, I've shared a photo of Shan not using the carrier properly to Najells Instagram and didn't hear anything back.
She spends her life making crap reels sad fishing how hard her life is. She needs to get over herself.
She spends her life making crap reels sad fishing how hard her life is. She needs to get over herself.
Which bit is it please? I’ve watched the vlog but missed itI get the impression she’s in it ALL the time
I also just went and watched the bit of the vlog people were chatting about with Halle crying and ah,heartbreaking!Why she put that on the internet I don’t know.
cosmicstar
Chatty Member
I don't follow her - how has she lost the plot?
For sure Shan is resentful about anyone/everyone having more support with childcare than she does. For once, that's not actually her fault though. She does have the option to control her feelings about it however.
My eldest is nearly 13 and is in bed before George!! The latest mine are in bed is 8.30
I missed this! Were they from betteryou?
cosmicstar
Chatty Member
She did do Politics A-level, which she reworded to "Political Science and Government". From looking at her college's site, it looks like the modules she did to get the one single A-level are: UK Politics, UK Government, Global Politics but ultimately, one single A-level. Her college does HNDs and other courses but none other in Politics. And if she had an HND I am sure she'd be shouting it from the rooftops. Pretty poor as far as education goes.
She mentions she is fluent in French in her profile. I'm sorry but I don't buy it. We would not hear the end of it if that was the truth.
She has also "enhanced" a few roles she had. It's quite bemusing
She micromanages her own finances so I can see her doing the same thing for someone's agenda but that's about it. It won't come from a position of knowledge.The skills she has been "endorsed" for also make her sounds like some entry-level admin
graceanatomy
Chatty Member
My husband worked in dfe until recently and it doesn't seem like it's particularly hard to get into tbh and they are frequently advertising for new people so I wouldn't be surprised if she did end up there when she goes back
MrsHeather
Well-known member
BlimeyDon’t worry he’s only had half an hour by 8am today!
my toddler only gets half an hour a day Maybe she could try talking to him about his feelings when he's upset instead of just cuddling him
cosmicstar
Chatty Member
@Jc456 I see! But Shan's job is highly administrative, and most importantly, there is someone with better experience and a higher level of education currently doing her job. It does not sound as a maternity cover - or at least they don't specify it in their Linkedin, so it sounds as if Shan will have to end up doing something else. Cause I can't see this other person job-sharing unless they move them onto another role?
cosmicstar
Chatty Member
This is how she does friendshipsDoes she want thesocialmama as her new best friend?
she stalks them until they agree to be her friend.Have a look at their thread
TLDR: both quit their jobs and started exploiting their kids online instead, lost all their originality and are now desperately trying to become generic influencers. Always getting into arguments with followers because they’re right 100% of the time - and did you know they had twins?I truly can’t imagine ash coming home from work and bringing peace and serenity to their household, he seems like just an absolute liability for Shan
Dramallama2
Well-known member
What is that ugly red water bottle looking thing hanging from her kitchen lights? Looks awful 
I actually wondered if her suddenly going on about the house not needing to be tidied was in retaliation to ash moaning about it or something. I could well be wrong though!
They'd get someone in on loan/secondment to cover while she's away. If her role wasn't there for any reason in 12 months then she'd go somewhere else at the same grade but they'd usually hold it for you. My mum is civil service and was loaned to universal credit for 12 months and then went back to her job at ONS and was still managing the same team.
Emsie
VIP Member
Eh?! I think something has been lost in translation here.
Kids having every single toy they own out tips me over the edge for sure but I have coping mechanisms like a few out a few in I don't whinge on the gram, taking photos when I could easily pick them up if it's bothering me so much.
G is at an age where he can start to pack his own toys away.
But toys aren't housework imo. Housework has to be done. Picking up toys as you go would be individual to that person.
realistic_real_life
Well-known member
I see she didn’t make it to this podcast thing that loads of them went to. Wasn’t she on that podcast a few times?
sageandoak
Active member
We’ve just had our bathroom done and had to use my grandmothers shower for a couple of weeks while the plumbing was sorted and then tiling was done around the bath. We managed without flooring and a sink for a few weeks. But it has been hard. And we’ve got one very good 4 year old.
And that was with a builder here every day doing it bit by bit.
Maybe this weekend he’s getting the bath and tiling done around the bath. Considering she has so much income I don’t know why she would have Ash do it in his spare time.
And that was with a builder here every day doing it bit by bit.
Maybe this weekend he’s getting the bath and tiling done around the bath. Considering she has so much income I don’t know why she would have Ash do it in his spare time.