I missed this! Were they from betteryou?Ah she got G some free magnesium. Well done shan, you're so great. Can we be mum friends.
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I missed this! Were they from betteryou?Ah she got G some free magnesium. Well done shan, you're so great. Can we be mum friends.
She did do Politics A-level, which she reworded to "Political Science and Government". From looking at her college's site, it looks like the modules she did to get the one single A-level are: UK Politics, UK Government, Global Politics but ultimately, one single A-level. Her college does HNDs and other courses but none other in Politics. And if she had an HND I am sure she'd be shouting it from the rooftops. Pretty poor as far as education goes.Wouldn't shock me if she or more likely her family knew someone who had connections. She doesn't seem like someone who would thrive in that kind of job role. Maybe it was connections or just pure luck- I doubt it was having a passion or great knowledge of politics, admin and other skills you may need to work in that role.
BlimeyDon’t worry he’s only had half an hour by 8am today!![]()
This is how she does friendshipsDoes she want thesocialmama as her new best friend?![]()
Have a look at their threadI don't follow her - how has she lost the plot?
For sure Shan is resentful about anyone/everyone having more support with childcare than she does. For once, that's not actually her fault though. She does have the option to control her feelings about it however.
I actually wondered if her suddenly going on about the house not needing to be tidied was in retaliation to ash moaning about it or something. I could well be wrong though!My question is, what housework does Ash do if she seems to be doing everything and childcare?!
They'd get someone in on loan/secondment to cover while she's away. If her role wasn't there for any reason in 12 months then she'd go somewhere else at the same grade but they'd usually hold it for you. My mum is civil service and was loaned to universal credit for 12 months and then went back to her job at ONS and was still managing the same team.Would she be able to back into the same job? For example, at my work when legal secretaries went on mat leave many ended up in completely different departments when they came back, because they had been replaced in the meantime
Eh?! I think something has been lost in translation here.But the comment wasn't about you. Unless your state of mind is also seriously affected by messy toys as well as Shan's. Nor about dropping the essentials like cleaning clothes etc.
Shan is stressed about toys laying about and it's clearly affecting her mental health that she cannot tidy them up immediately. She will never get to tidy everything immediately with two small babies around.
Is your mental health affected by the stuff you cannot get to tidy on 'time' to the extend it ruins your whole week? Shan's seems to. She can ask Ash when he is around but if he is working 12 hour days then he simply isn't available. A cleaner isn't going to be picking up toys for 12 hours a day just for you, unless you have the dosh to pay her 2 salaries.
It's obvious she gets to do enough stuff in the evening and during naps. Just not enough for her liking.
I'm pretty sure she has to commute once a week or maybe twice. It certainly wasn't every day by any means.Didn't she work from home every day anyway? I'm sure she only had the very occasional commute to do. It's like she's justifying it to herself/others. She's so full of shit. I can't wrap my head around the mother who hates every single aspect of parenting and it not shy in voicing that is attempting to be a SAHM. There is no way she's going to cope when Halle starts moving and becoming a toddler and doesn't nap as much, I assume this is when she'll stick her in nursery more but try and keep it quiet. As she even said herself, she doesn't have a single other thing to talk about other than being a mum, it's so fucking boring. Even if she spoke about a new book she was enjoying or a tv series, but no. She desperately needs to find some new interests.
Oooo what text was that? I don’t remember that!If I had 2 children that had both woke at night and my husband slept through it and it was the weekend, I would actively wake him up and make him go tend to one child while I looked after the other one. He literally just comes across as a sperm donor then has Shan mother him too.
Oh but wait, it's fine for him to be excused because he built the kitchen she so badly designed as he once said in a text she shared......!
If she can't see how useless he is coming across, can't her family or friends see it?! I don't even feel sorry for Shan at this point.