My 3 year old likes to pretend he doesn’t understand “no” or “stop”
My 3 year old likes to pretend he doesn’t understand “no” or “stop”“Your child may have a speech delay if they aren't able to do these things: Say simple words (such as “mama” or “dada”) either clearly or unclearly by 12 to 15 months of age. Understand simple words (such as “no” or “stop”) by 18 months of age. Talk in short sentences by 3 years of age.” - I.e. Eggybread is home with Elvis 24/7, but hasn’t picked up on his delayed speech or if she has, she hasn’t been public about it. It would have surely been picked up on at his 2-year check up, however.
Also, I’m not expecting her to get a job tomorrow, I’m baffled by the fact she chooses to continuously have children whilst her children are still actual babies. Her job is being Chet’s partner. If they break up, she has absolutely nothing to fall back on, she can’t wait until Peach goes to daycare and then hop back into work because aside from Hellur Fresh, she’s got nothing to pay actual bills. We should all have something - male, female, non-binary, whatever. We should all have an identity out of being a parent or partner, and she has zero desire to do that which is proven by her desire to just continuously have children - and to specifically have children with a man who allegedly cheats so often. She is a kept woman. She has nothing outside of Chet; she’d have to move home with 3 kids or he’d have to be willing to pay her rent elsewhere - or let her stay in the home that’s in his name that he pays the mortgage for. I’m confused by any woman, or man, so willing to accept that as their life, in 2023. That’s all. Idk anyone who sets out to be a SAHM for the rest of their life, but Eggyhead has.
Yes!!! You’ve worded this far better than I’ve been trying toEveryone's getting so defensive over Elvis's speech
"18 months is too young"... he's two?
"Wait til he goes to nursery"... he goes to nursery already?
Chet and Helen are shit parents, they were buzzing Ocean knew her colours, she's three and has gone to nursery for years, it's something Elvis should know let alone her. They're lazy and it's showing in their kids. Nobody's saying they're autistic but for the resources available to them, the fact they can afford nursery, they can afford for Helen to be at home all day, the kids are delayed.
It's circumstancial and nobody is having a pop at Bob down the road. It's a Helen and Chet thread
Don’t overthink it, we’ve all been there in our younger days. I’ve been in a relationship for the last 10 years (& plan on staying for life) and my biggest regret was that I didn’t enjoy being young and free when I had the opportunity.I’m the ‘tent girl’ and I’m fucking gutted to be called a slut
[/QUOTE]I’m the ‘tent girl’ and I’m fucking gutted to be called a slut
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Can we stop with the slut shaming of this girl (whoever the inhaler girl is and the tent girl) it may be “just a joke” to most of you but it’s so blatantly rooted in misogyny. The term slut is disgusting and to make out the girl is the slut but the guy, Chet in this case, isn’t a slut? Make is make sense
I don’t know what people expect Ellun to do work wise, she’s popped out 3 babies in 3 years she’s hardly going to be flying up the corporate ladder is she? Most normal people wouldn’t have even have had time to go back to work after mat leave before the next one is due
Health visitors doWho’s assessing an 18 month olds speech?
They don’t at 18 months. They are assessed at 2 years to be able to say 40 words (which mine was 2 years 3 months old) and then referrals begin there if there’re any worries. It’s taken over 12 months to get somewhere with my son and that’s going private now too. Turns out he has glue ears - really common, which in turn affects his speech because he can’t hear well. Nothing to do with parenting. He’s still only 3.5 years old so they’re not overly concerned as his ears will sort themselves out.Health visitors do
They don’t at 18 months. They are assessed at 2 years to be able to say 40 words (which mine was 2 years 3 months old) and then referrals begin there if there’re any worries. It’s taken over 12 months to get somewhere with my son and that’s going private now too. Turns out he has glue ears - really common, which in turn affects his speech because he can’t hear well. Nothing to do with parenting. He’s still only 3.5 years old so they’re not overly concerned as his ears will sort themselves out. 
I know everyone’s experience is different but some people really don’tnow what they’re talking about with this.
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It’s supposed to be a thread to talk about influencers not make assumptions about the development of babies who we see maybe 10 mins a week orGone all Mumsnet again I see
Her ex that she was with for a long time is now married and expecting a baby with someone I went to school withShe is actually a hair dresser this is what she did before EX on the beach she worked in a salon from being at school BUT when her and chet when on the show they were very much together and this was just a opportunity to them both so clearly her aspirations were to be famous and do fuck allI don’t even think the ex she brought on the show was her ex I’ve only know her to have one bf before chet and they were together a long time i think he cheated on her too.
Sorry Doctor PumpkinLord. I have no issues with children being delayed - I have an issue with Eggyhead & Sket’s lazy parenting. My comments are not about your children, they’re about the offspring of the the people the threads about. I see more of Egg & Sket’s kids online, than I do of friends/families children; every single video they upload of Elvis, he is completely non-verbal and unresponsive or glued to a phone - that is uncomfortable & sad to see. Neither of them have the brain cells to acknowledge the reasons for their kids not sleeping, so how could anyone expect that either of them would pick up on any type of delay regardless of what has caused that delay. Although I don’t agree with people on here being triggered and defending their own parenting - it’s quite clear that people have taken proactive steps for their own kids, which is something I don’t believe Egg & Sket would or have done because as I said, multiple stimulations before bed but they question “why are the kwids stwill awake bwuv”. I think it’s wholly unfair that they constantly post Elvis’ vacantness online for hundreds of thousands of people to witness, he doesn’t deserve to have a phone shoved in his face at the best of times - but to constantly show your non-verbal child looking extremely uncomfortable & vacant, is very sad to witness as a parent. As I said when I made my comments - I do hope I’m wrong and they are taking the correct steps for him.
Obviously it’s a fact children develop at different rates - but sometimes there is a reason for that, and seeking professional advice is never going to be harmful for you or your child even if the outcome is ‘no concerns’. If we notice a weird rash on our child, we’d ordinarily consult our doctor at the very least, even if it’s likely to just be some mild skin irritation. I don’t see asking “Is my child’s speech ok?” as any different to that tbh. I personally think communication is important, even if your non-verbal child can just communicate via pointing or simple sign language, do you not all remember the look on your baby/toddlers face when they communicated (in whatever way) and you understood them? It’s instant joy on their face, like they’re so thrilled & proud that they had a ‘voice’. I worry for little Elvis, genuinely, two sisters and one that’s currently very attention seeking & a mother who’s more focused on constantly having babies. That’s all I’m trying to make with my point. None of this is an attack on their children or your children or any children with actual autism, hearing issues, or whatever else!
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