Some of us still like Helen...I see shades of who she used to be here and there. Her "friends" are the ones who need to question their actions. She is on an obvious downward spiral, perhaps intervene...she might not listen, but try. I wonder how many of her friends enjoy the wreck, like feel better about themselves because they're not constantly boozing, eating and making themself a fool on the net. It's like the friends of the behaviour kid who enjoy the adrenaline rush when the behaviour kid kicks off, but they get to walk away from it. I've only ever seen Grace encourage Helen to stay single for a bit. I mean Helen didn't listen, but maybe if more tried she might actually question herself....or maybe feel supported enough to deal with her issues.