So a bit of a long one but I've woken up this morning feeling positive and as Helen reads here I thought I'd give her my opinion, and hopefully she actually listens to some good advice.
Here goes... So I think Helen and Fil would stand a better chance if she didn't force the influencer/youtube life on him. It really does seem like he's not comfortable with it at all and is doing it to please her. I think he actually does really like her, but it will get to a point where he will feel he's lost his true self and that will be the end of that relationship. People should always be given the space to grow themselves, it doesn't mean there is something wrong with your relationship. In fact it can be very healthy, if you can grow together, sometimes entwined and sometimes off in different directions, you will probably have a long and fulfilling relationship.
She doesn't even need to be one of those couples. Sammi Jeffcoate rarely brings her family life on line and yet she's so successful at what she's doing.
If Helen took her fingers out of all the pies and concentrated on learning one or two recipes to perfection - i.e. Home & Fashion or just her music or even on the photography/video side of things instead of being in front of the camera, she'd be more successful.
Right now she's seriously crashing and burning, I bet half of her views on yt are people watching to see how badly she performs next. And that's shitty but something she has entirely caused herself. She should have a think about what products she genuinely loves and concentrate on affs and ads with them instead of accepting EVERYTHING.
People are always more drawn to those they think are genuine and honest, which apparently Phil thinks she is, so maybe she should show that to her followers.
Finally she should cut back her youtube videos, if they were one or two a month, she'd have more content, more time to plan an awesome video and more people would enjoy what she's putting out.
Well that's my two cents for today
thanks if you read this far 
Here goes... So I think Helen and Fil would stand a better chance if she didn't force the influencer/youtube life on him. It really does seem like he's not comfortable with it at all and is doing it to please her. I think he actually does really like her, but it will get to a point where he will feel he's lost his true self and that will be the end of that relationship. People should always be given the space to grow themselves, it doesn't mean there is something wrong with your relationship. In fact it can be very healthy, if you can grow together, sometimes entwined and sometimes off in different directions, you will probably have a long and fulfilling relationship.
She doesn't even need to be one of those couples. Sammi Jeffcoate rarely brings her family life on line and yet she's so successful at what she's doing.
If Helen took her fingers out of all the pies and concentrated on learning one or two recipes to perfection - i.e. Home & Fashion or just her music or even on the photography/video side of things instead of being in front of the camera, she'd be more successful.
Right now she's seriously crashing and burning, I bet half of her views on yt are people watching to see how badly she performs next. And that's shitty but something she has entirely caused herself. She should have a think about what products she genuinely loves and concentrate on affs and ads with them instead of accepting EVERYTHING.
People are always more drawn to those they think are genuine and honest, which apparently Phil thinks she is, so maybe she should show that to her followers.
Finally she should cut back her youtube videos, if they were one or two a month, she'd have more content, more time to plan an awesome video and more people would enjoy what she's putting out.
Well that's my two cents for today
thanks if you read this far 
