Yes it would have been a flipflop with either eventuality.If Harry had been told that he couldn't do that walk imagine what ammo he would have now...
"I was forcibly stopped from honouring Mummy like William did. I will never forget the pain of being denied that opportunity"
This is one thing I'm with him on though, a grief disorder is a very painful thing and impacts so much. He hasn't got to grips with it yet.